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This is how I learned to really enjoy my alone time.
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Hey, I'm Cole Hastings. I'm a vegan athlete/content creator with a passion for videography/video editing, among other things. I help people build themselves physically/mentally through fitness and self help videos.
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
“It is better being alone than being with someone who makes you feel alone.”
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As an introvert, i clicked on this at the speed of light.
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Im 20 and I've always been alone, no relationship, no friends and I tried so many things and learned everything by myself.
- electric guitar
- cooking, baking
- doing sports: football, gym, running, dancing, horse riding, shooting, fencing, swimming, freediving (these last two are my love)
- meditation, breath hold exercises, practicing lucid dreaming and mindfullness
- playing the piano
- drawing, painting, crocheting, sewing, knitting
- video and photo editing, photography
- spending time with my dog
- reading books and articles of all kind, writing my own book and translating
- learning languages (I speak 4 now)
- doing exercises to improove my skills, like memory
- gardening, taking care of my plants, wandering in nature
Many of these things are part of my daily routine and Im doing the rest regularly too. Ive always had serious problems with self love and being alone, family issues, I have struggled with self harm, depression and suicidal thoughts in my whole life, but its been over 2 years already since my deepest point ever and I'm really striving to change and accept and love myself and really love being alone.
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"A wise man can always be found alone. A weak man can always be found in a crowd.” - Bruce Lee
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I learned to love being alone when I realized everyone is only pretending to be positive because that is what society demands, but on the inside they are all miserable.
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12 critical things you should never tolerate
1. Unhappiness at work.
2. A long commute.
3. An unhealthy lifestyle.
4. Draining relationships.
5. A disordered living space.
6 negativity.
7. To much stuff.
8. Financial problems.
9. Living out of your integrity.
10. Living without fun.
11. Accepting ignorance and inertia.
12. Lack of communication.
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Friends are like shadows, they're at your brightest moments, but gone at your darkest moments.
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Last month my ex-girlfriend walked out of my life with my ex-bestfriend. We just bought a house 6 months ago in a new city, 4 hours away from any family or friends. I'm taking care of it on my own now and I've been reading a lot of books on stoicism and more recently started listening to the David Goggin's book "Can't hurt me". (Highly recommend for Cole's viewers). I wanted to say that happiness is a choice you have to make everyday irregardless of the external forces you are being subjected to. You have it within yourself to be that person you dream of being. End everyday by truly saying "I did well, I had a good day." Then each good day will become each good week, and each good week, will become each good year, until eventually you can say you have a good life.
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The best career advice that I learned is don’t ever attach your-self to a PERSON, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Only Attach your-self to your mission in life and your PURPOSE. That’s how you keep your power and keep your peace!
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Being alone has a power that very few people can handle 💪🏽
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It's been a struggle being alone after ending a 12yr marriage. It's good to hear that it's ok.
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I love being alone but hate feeling lonely. I feel the loneliest and the most misunderstood when I’m surrounded by a bunch of people that I don’t really like or have a connection with and find it difficult to find people who want to connect on a deeper level.
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A man who lacks purpose distracts him self with pleasure.
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being alone is my favourite feeling, you learn you and it’s easier to work on your goals
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The fact that I needed someone to feel happy sucks. I don't wanna rely on anyone for anything honestly I wanna make sure I adore myself with and without people!
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I used to have a close friend group in high school and we all drifted apart after graduating. I've learned over these last few years trying to force everyone to get together and failing that it's best to get comfortable with yourself and not trying to be with other people. You don't need other people to enjoy life, it's just icing on the cake
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Sometimes having 2 or 3 close friends isn’t so bad but being alone is great, cause some people are meant to be in your life forever while others just change and drift away and that’s okay.
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The confidence you gain from learning to love your own company and be okay okay with being alone, is what will attract a lot friends to your life.
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As an introvert, I'm most comfortable when I'm alone at home. I was married for 38 years, single in a relationship and currently single and not dating. Dating is unenjoyable to me and I find being around people draining for the most part. I love the peace and freedom of being alone at home in my cozy, comfy, clean, organized home doing whatever I want. I even hate now when I get an intrusive-feeling knock at my front door and most of the time don't answer. I guess that makes me a hermit now, but I'm liking it more each day.
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@AskDoctorMurphy
3 years ago
watching you is like watching a boy slowly go insane at the reality of life. Psychologically analysing yourself to paralysis... slowly losing everyone around you because you're a bore to be with because you lecture everyone.
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