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Genre: Howto & Style
Date of upload: Nov 10, 2023 ^^
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Courtney, this is one of my favorite videos you've done for real. When you mention being honestly curious, an active listener, sincerely humble, keeping an open mind, it all points to having real authentic character. Also, Courtney you have modeled showing outstanding character that isn't fake through your content. I really love to give complements to people and it has changed my life. Healthy vulnerability is also something that isn't addressed enough.
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be approachable, curious 😂, have a hobby, be authentic🤣, be able to plan and execute… organized, prioritize, have a purpose with your life, give a genuine compliment. Don’t be lying. Don’t gossip, speak highly of others. Don’t trash talk last relationship. Don’t be cocky, don’t talk shit about yourself, don’t act like you know it all, be self aware. Say you don’t know.
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Regarding 'Compliments'.............I tried that ONCE!! I won't make that mistake again!!
I told a woman I work with that she smelled nice as she walked past me first thing in the morning!(at work)
Got screamed at, her exact words were ....'I ALWAYS SMELL NICE!!!.... WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY???
WHAT ARE TRYING TO SAY LIKE??? DON'T I USUALLY SMELL NICE????..........
Seriously!! And women wonder why men don't 'compliment' them any more!!.........THAT'S WHY!!
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Pretty good refresh.
1.) Curiosity is interest engaged. I think everyone should want to delve. Otherwise? The interaction is just a one way conversation with a wall put up. And who wants that?
ALSO) I LOVE FACTOR! I use them for quick "office food", and it's been extremely convenient for eating in between medical codes.
2.) Hobbies suggest that we live a fuller life. It's also a nice way to see compatibilities quickly. We see personality with what folks love.
3.) Plans and execution shows "critical timing and decision making". No one likes disorganized impromptu, which also leans to having folks think that there's no foresight. Heavily agreed on this.
4. & 5.) Genuine compliments - the easiest of random act of kindness. It's a nice icebreaker. And yes, it shows a person better attention to detail by observation.
At the same time? Speaking positively shows a brighter aura. As Monty Python suggests? "Always look on the bright side to life!" 😊
6.) I think humility is modesty. And also showing we are human. Humanistic traits make us relatable. And people love who and what they relate with. 😃
Great video. This is a great reminder to be more human. And be the best parts of being human. 😃
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Great stuff! 1 comment...Do NOT compliment women you aren't dating, especially at the work place. Basically anything can be considered sexual harassment. I also believe there are other factors when it comes to compliments. I went to 1 high school dance...a Sady Hawkins dance, at a different school, and I was asked to the dance by the girl. I was reluctant because I didn't really like her. But I said yes. When I picked her up, her dress was gorgeous. I told her she looked really pretty. We spent the night dancing and chatting. Afterwards I thought this is a girl I would like to see again. Never heard from her again. I tried getting in contact with her and her friend told me she doesn't want to see me again. I asked why. She said she thought it was creepy I said she was pretty and that she didn't want me stalking her...
In case anyone is wondering how to really mess up a young man...
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I will enlighten you guys about something, maybe it's obvious tho.
The last young lady I went on 2 dates with said "you are a great date planner", and "you are easy to talk to", and she was even impressed that I volunteer, I mentor a freshman in high school. But when you don't make more money than her, she's out of there. Even when she tells you "you are so handsome. You look amazing!" Even when you run into her afterwards.
Just want to inform you guys that looks, style, and demeanor aren't everything. Unfortunately with a lot of women (at least in DC) money is by far the #1.
Stack your funds, Gentlemen.
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Most of the things discussed on this channel are true, that's why I never had a problem attracting women irl, but almost all of them were already taken for over 20 years so I'll put this down as fate or just bad luck (or rather lacking luck?), but online "dating" is different, actually a 180° flip where everyone is single but zero interest ie no likes/matches at all on any app. I just feel bad for guys much younger than me...
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I'm 100% all of this, I'm a nice, genuine, humble, and caring guy. I'm 28 and currently casually dating 4 girls, and I'm not rich or muscular .I'm overweight around 250 lbs.6'2 and I'm planning to lose weight. Don't listen to guys that say "nice guys finish last" because that's it's not true ! I did it, and you can too!
it's EVERYTHING Courtney said!
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So these are the words clipped from the triplets.
1:11--because curiosity (about what?) ;)
2:22--or they know something (uncertain--I'll get back to you when I find out if I know anything) ;)
3:33--get 50% off (oddly 1/2 the time I assessed) ;)
4:44--trying to be attractive (that implies effort=exercise=probably not) ;)
5:55--taking initiative (initiative is not the problem--it is right after that goes awry) ;)
6:66 (7:06)--values his time (I've been de-valued so much that time is now very high on the list) ;)
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Oh my god yes just on the first point I had to jump here and comment. My husband doesn't understand how attractive he is to me when he just goes off on whatever thing he learned about! Even dares to call it useless information. I have to tell him to stop talking to my husband that way sometimes!
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