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Wine About It
Patreon: www.patreon.com/wineaboutit
đ§ Spotify: tinyurl.com/WineAboutItSpotify
đ§ Apple Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wine-about-it/id1620âŠ
QTCinderella âș www.twitch.tv/qtcinderella
Maya âș www.twitch.tv/maya
Twitter âș twitter.com/Wineaboutit69
Instagram âșwww.instagram.com/wineaboutit420
Edited By Fusion_X: twitter.com/Antonio1701A
0:00 Intro
2:44 bad first impressions
5:48 Obligatory Wine Review
14:37 Potential new Patreon goal and Taylor Swiftâs breakup
19:30 Obligatory Wine Review continued
22:07 QTâs sleeping problems
25:38 QT does not have health insurance
31:19 Female friendships VS friendships with guys
47:47 Gravitating towards male friendships
50:32 Opening up to women
1:00:11 Not feeling approachable
1:05:20 Maya is scary
1:08:17 Best advice for making female friends
1:12:54 How Maya made friends in college
1:14:17 Creating a social circle / friends in the streaming industry
1:20:24 Ludwig weighs in
1:25:12 Outro
#qtcinderella #maya #wineaboutit
Views : 262,986
Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: Apr 12, 2023 ^^
Rating : 4.955 (110/9,746 LTDR)
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
maya pulling out the cork was iconic
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ADVICE FROM A GIRLSâ GIRL: I have never had a straight, male friend in my life, but I make female friends very easily so I feel qualified lol. Compliments are key in female communication - theyâre almost used as a secondary greeting. You meet up with a friend and you compliment their outfit or bag or hair or whatever, and itâs not to objectify each other, but rather to take notice of their effort and set the tone for the conversation - friendly, low-judgement, light. Ofc the tone can change depending on topic of circumstance, but itâs like a mini-bonding moment that you recognize each other at the beginning of your interaction. Conversely, you have to accept the compliment in return, or at least not reject it entirely. Some women do playfully reject a compliment in a âfishingâ type way, but itâs all about tone. If you reject it and bring down the tone, itâs a signal to the other woman that youâre not interested in bonding - it can be intimidating, and a wall is put up. Itâs fine to be self-deprecating as long as you leave space for other women to lift you back up. Thatâs why the compliments online can get kind of out of hand - we all just want to build each other up, and we want our friends to build us up in return. Itâs definitely a bit of a performance, but itâs not insincere. You donât have to be bubbly to do this either. I wouldnât describe myself as overly positive or bubbly, in fact I think Iâm quite dry too, but I can turn it on to lift up my friends. And the only way to get good at this âcompliment communicationâ is to just do it. Any little thing you notice thatâs nice, just say it. Maybe itâs awkward at first, but if you work at it, itâll become easier. I think lots of recovering âpick-me girlsâ struggle with this bc itâs a learned social behavior from adolescence that you missed out on. So donât be too hard on yourself đ Youâre both interesting, funny people that Iâm sure can make friends easily once you get past that initial bond. Anyway, hope that helped. I feel like an anthropologist studying women and reporting my findings lmao
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When QT said "I wish I could be that girl in the bathroom that's like you look fkn fine" I felt that. Everything you said about female friendships is so relatable to me it's crazy.
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As a dude who grew up playing Halo, it sounds like her group of guy friends were just genuinely excited to have another person to play video games with, its cool you're still friends with at least one of them
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QT's ability to bring Maya's mind to a screaming halt is S tier.
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I like that the podcast isnât always so positive it feels more real !
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The panties thing is definitely sexual harassment lol, imagine some man doing that to you now. As a girl watching this pod, I love these talks. It reminds me of talks you have with your female friends after you are grown up realizing all the fucked up shit you went through and never registered as not normal lmao (gr**ming, SA, sexism...). Is sad but we have all been there and is really reassuring to hear other girls' stories.
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this is legit a therapy podcast and i fuck with it. i actually dont have any female friends so getting to hear females talk about relationship with guys and seeing that maya and blair having completely different experiances is eye opening. you can kinda see why maya initial react to the dake situation in the last podcast was "oh of course he wants to do that, of course hes a guy and he want to sexualize me." because maya thought it was the default experiance for women. i just want to say thank you!!! you guys are really smart and emotionally aware. being able to dive into these topics with no notes and feed off each others ideas is how we live in a better world. thank you again.
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I do think Maya should be careful with the statement "I've worked with autistic kids since 2009" because it SO common for women with autism (that don't have high support needs) to not get diagnosed until adulthood. So even if you work with or interact with a lot of autistic children, you might not recognise autism in adult women because they just don't get the same diagnosis at a young age. As an recently diagnosed ADHD girlie I've been more sensitive to the fact that our neurodiversities often get missed out because we don't present with the same symptoms as (often) male children. And IF QT is autistic, of course she wouldn't present the same as an autistic child because she's an adult woman and has had more life experience to manage her symptoms or mask them.
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QT and Maya talking about how hard it is to make friends as a young adult has literally made me feel so validated â€
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"Bro maybe i'm lucky or ugly idk which one" what an amazing quote đ€Ł
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I find it interesting how theyâre talking about not being like other women but they found each other, you gotta find women similar to you to build strong connections with.
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Whenever I feel bad about not being bubbly and effervescent I remind myself that all those murder shows start with someone who "lights up a room" and I instantly feel better lmao
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Regarding the autism spectrum:
I am an autistic woman and (god I donât mean this parasocially) Iâve wondered for a long time if QT is autistic. Itâs common for women to be diagnosed with 10 bajillion things (ocd, bipolar, borderline, add, adhd) and then come to find out all their symptoms were just signs of being on the autism spectrum, but because the diagnostics are so biased towards five year old boys, women, especially adult women, are diagnosed much less and also much differently.
A lot of what QT talks about being awkward and just social situations from her childhood I relate too, and in hindsight were signs that I was autistic. QT, if youâre wondering if youâre on the spectrum, my totally-professional-YouTube-comment-rando-opinion is that you should get it checked out by a psych or someone who deals in diagnosing those things. It can be expensive though so be aware of that.
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Maya, you can totally gas up your girl friends. The way you spoke about how pretty Quarter Jade was during girl's trip was so nice.
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QT: Samantha had a freaking horse. You don't have a freaking horse.
Maya: Yeah..
QT: You had a horse.
Maya: Yes, I had a horse.
QT: Bitch!
This is why I love this podcast.
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Maya: doesnât own a wine opener but has a rubber mallet on hand
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as a bi girl, i get feeling weird matching that energy of âstfu you are so hotâ because growing up i was always extra respectful because i didnât want to be âweird.â for instance in locker rooms i was always looking at girlsâ hairlines so my eyesight would be as far away from their bodies as possible.
so for me to feel comfortable giving that energy was hard because i was scared to seem like i was hitting on them or something? idk
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People are valid in feeling like the pod is depressing, but I hope they understand where that perspective comes from. Hearing them talk candidly about past situations and trauma from a female perspective is very cathartic for many, and I hope they don't stop just bc of a small group of people
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@thedevilssalad
1 year ago
My new favorite thing is hearing "audio listeners" and then watching what is actually happening.
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