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Genre: Music
Date of upload: Jun 20, 2020 ^^
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i asked my 9 year old brother what a ānoā meant.
and he responded with āa no means no,and it doesnāt matter if its a girl or a boy its about,a no means always no and if they keep going after no i hit them in the private placeā.
i have never been a fan of violence.
but i felt so proud to be his sibling in that moment.
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in 6th grade a boy sexually assaulted my 2 friends and i, when we told our principal she told us it was our faults for what we were wearing. i was wearing sweatpants and a hoodie, one of my friends was wearing leggings and a sweater, and my other friend was wearing overalls and a tshirt. for the rest of the year we dressed way out of dress code because it wasn't our faults, it was the boys and we should wear whatever we want without men harassing us
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After masses of sexual assault allegations in my school, me and my friend hosted a protest. We thought our year would chicken out but when the bell rang for 3rd period, i went out to the yard and saw hundreds of kids with banners chanting and cheering for us. The principle heard and we are currently creating new health regulations in school and creating real punishments for real criminal offences. Change is possible and it starts with us.
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A boy at my school is bullying me. When I bring it up to my parents they say that he likes me. I donāt give a shit if he likes me, he needs to leave me alone. People acting like if a boy likes you he can do anything he wants to you. Thatās not how it works. So please parents, educate your sons to be better than this.
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In movies, when a guy or a group of guys assaults a woman, and the woman fights back, I want the directors of the movie to show a scene where the boy(s) realize their mistake, stop assaulting/catcalling the woman, and APOLOGIZE to her. If this scene isn't shown, I think young, impressionable boys in real life will get the wrong idea and think that boys can do this and that it's normal and women are just overreacting. It is WRONG and NO ONE has the right to harass another human being, whether they are male or female.
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Even though Iāve been raped, assaulted, and abused by men, one of my most traumatic memories was when I was eight years old. I was a guest at a wedding, and during the reception I was hanging out with this cool older girl. One of the older guys (probably 25) looked me up in down, sipped his drink, and called me āsmoking hotā. I went to the bathroom and cried because I felt so embarrassed. I never told my parents, and I avoided him for the rest of the night because I felt so ashamed of my prepubescent body. I was catcalled more times when I was thirteen than I do now.
Men say ānot all men!ā and while that is true, men are the ones who have formed our fears through those traumatizing formative experiences. Stop invalidating womenās trauma because youāre offended at the idea that a woman would dare to be cautious around you when she doesnāt know you - or even when she does. The grand majority of rapes are carried out by men that the victim knows intimately; friends, acquaintances, boyfriends, family members. We canāt even fully trust the men that we ātrustā the most; I was raped by my boyfriend and I was raped two of my male friends. I trusted all of them.
Do you think that we WANT to distrust men? No. Itās fucking exhausting to keep at least a bit of a guard up all of the time. But when you and most of the women in your life have been assaulted and every woman in your life has had at least one experience with sexual harassment, you canāt stop being cautious.
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i think itās a very crucial detail that anneās friends were flattered and giggly when the boys pulled their skirts up because (especially at that time) itās been drilled into us that anything from acts of cruelty and teasing to despicable, borderline assault should be flattering. the world has taught us to crave male validation so much we put ourselves in danger.
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@bad_to_worse8589
3 years ago
To anyone who says "Not all men do this", I agree. Not all men do this, fortunately for me, the males in my life aren't those kind of people, so I agree, not all men are like this. However, this video isn't about that. It may not be 'all men' but it is a 'majority' of men who are responsible for such atrocities. That is enough for women to be afraid because when you're in trouble - when you're walking alone and someone starts following you, I highly doubt you'd wanna hang around and check whether they're 'one of those' men or not. I'm not saying men aren't abused. They are too, abuse against males needs to be talked about and people should be aware about that too. However, this video is about women because a majority of women have faced something like this.. at one point or another in their life. Whether woman or man, no one should ever have to feel afraid when they walk back home alone, when they use public transport.
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