Views : 878,870
Genre: Music
Date of upload: Premiered Sep 10, 2021 ^^
Rating : 4.989 (171/63,341 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2022-04-06T11:37:11.613302Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
How... how did it take me this long to realize I'd never heard a song that accurately depicts my friendship relationships like this one does? I became emotionally distant and ended up isolating myself from people because I was 'that friend'. It's a real tough place to be in, and once those walls are up, it can take a hell of a lot to bring them back down. I now have four people I would (mostly) solidly call a 'friend', but I still have fears over friendships. I worry that I'm not saying enough, or saying too much. Worry that I'll say the wrong thing, push them away, or that if I don't reply, they'll leave me behind but, the thing is; they're the same. They, I think, were also 'that friend' and somehow, someway, we found each other, and I'm so fucking grateful for that.
So, I guess, what I'm trying to say is, if you are 'that friend', don't lose hope. There is nothing wrong with you, and it's okay if you leave behind the people who would leave you, because one day, you'll find your tribe, and they'll get it, and they'll stay.
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I'm 14 and I'm going through a really dark place right now..I've done some things im not proud of and I hate myself and the way I feel about certain things and that's really not helpful because there's a lot of depressing stuff going on. People in these comment sections are so friendly and supportive and I know its stupid to be thanking random strangers on the internet but thank you everyone who spends their time replying, and thank you mad tsai for giving me a space where I can share my feelings without being judged <3
Edit : thank you so much for the wholesome replies. Some are being so accepting and others can relate. To all these people, y'all deserve the worldš„ŗā¤
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It's my first time to hear this song and I can say from my own experience that the lyrics accurately describes my past friendship. I was "that friend" back then, but eventually, I've got tired from living that way so I decided to stay alone. Yeah, I isolated myself because that's when I realized that it's better to be alone than to be with those people who often make you feel alone.
Indeed, it felt better. It's way more peaceful.
And now I'm contented with my current friends whom I treasure dearly even though we barely communicate because of being busy in our personal lives.
So here's my piece of what I have learned:
Never settle for less. It isn't selfish for wanting to feel valued. Just be true to yourself, because you attract what you project and not what you just want.
If you are "that friend", please choose your support system wisely. Don't be afraid to be alone if that means staying away from fake ones. You are too precious. You deserve to be with the genuine ones. āŗļø
08.23.22
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I'm 15 and I'm going through a really dark place right now..I've done some things im not proud of and I hate myself and the way I feel about certain things and that's really not helpful because there's a lot of controversial stuff going on. It's just people in these comment sections are so friendly and helpful and I know its stupid to be thanking random strangers in the Internet but thank you everyone who spends their time replying to us broken creatures, and thank you mad tsai for giving me a safe space I've been so desperate for <3
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Bro i just saw a reel with this song and immediately jumped here for the full version. I'm about to cry, trying to hold the tears in rn. All I'd say is that this is the best song that can describe my social life. I sometimes feel so overwhelmed thinking about all this, and want to share it with someone. But i realise, that I have no one. I do have an online friend who's very nice to me, but i don't want to be a burden on the only person I talk with by crying in front of them. I just write it all in my diary, pretending I'm writing a letter to my future self. And i read my old diary entries, pretending I'm reading a letter from my past self, explaining her situation to me
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@MadTsaiOfficial
2 years ago
who is disliking my videos š it hasnāt even released yet HAHA
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