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Weâve all been stuck in an awkward conversation that feels forced or boring. You want the person to like you, but you have no idea what to say.Â
So in todayâs video, weâll go over five habits that instantly make conversation more fun and help you connect with anyone.
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0:00 - Intro
0:11 - #1: Set a playful tone early in the interaction
2:31 - #2: Give a genuine friendly compliment
4:25 - #3: Share your imperfections (without shame)
5:42 - #4: Ask open-ended questions
6:37 - #5: Be a likeable listener
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
One thing I'm learning as a young adult is that it's usually okay to not say anything or be okay with being silent. You don't have to absolutely crush every single interaction with people. Being okay with most get togethers being a little boring, doesn't mean that YOU are a boring person of that other people don't value being around you. I think adopting a mindset of aiming for good enough instead of perfection, makes it easier to relax and then you can really enjoy the moment that you're in.
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It's real nice when you speak to people and they don't just hear what you say but fully understand you. That is very rare these days!
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Everyone knows these tips instinctively, but if youâre not confident or comfortable with doing it, itâll still be awkward
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"Dormammu so fat..."
Bro I can't đ
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My problem is to avoid making the darkest joke that comes into brain
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I love the sentiment at the very end about making the conversation a good time for you! Too often I (we?) worry about what the other person thinks, having a good impression- and being overall likable. But it feels like youâre taking back over and itâs empowering to think that âjust being yourselfâ will filter the right people into your life and send away the rest.
I guess I needed to hear that
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It's always fun learning about someone. When you make it all about the other person, you gain so much knowledge.
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Absolutely, authenticity is one of the greatest ways you can make someone else open up to you, that willingness to share your some hidden truths about yourself is a recipe for success in getting others to connect with you, because those you speak to are more likely to open up following you! Just don't over do it because there's a sweet spot with relatability and authenticity that you have to hit to really hit it off with someone.
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For the first time in 60 years people tell they like talking to me. Unbelievable. And thank you.
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what gets me about this channel is the numeric value added to the suggestions. iâm autistic and realistically these videos just help me understand how neurotypical people interpret others and act, and how to be more approachable with less masking. being able to quantify the conversation makes it so easy. i struggle with things like knowing where to look or when to say something this way instead of that way, or how to be taken seriously without being interpreted as condescending, or literally just what to say next. just the simple tip of answering 25% of the small talk questions will change so much of my ability to casually talk with people without working myself up over nothing. what a time to be alive
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These are actually really great tips, and they made me realize that I've been doing these things subconsciously. đ
Like, I've had people tell me that they find me charming, but I haven't felt like I do anything specific, so it was good to hear specific examples to put words on it, because now I know that those things are what they mean.
I'm not saying this to blow my own horn, but rather to confirm that these things genuinely give results.
Just starting off the conversation with a joke - and especially the kinds of jokes you mentioned - is something that has really made it easy for me to meet new people.
It's not 100% fool proof - sometimes you just don't "Get" each other - but like you said in the video, most people want to have a fun conversation.
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Youâll eventually reach a point in your life where you couldnât care less. Itâs so refreshing to walk away and talk to someone where you donât
Need tips and conversation flows.
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I started doing these unknowingly as soon as i stopped trying to impress people. Once i decided to be myself unapologetically, i started having great conversations
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I like that first tip, just be more fun in the conversation to make them more fun. imma try this everywhere in life, just be healthier, happier, wealthier, smarter and more attractive
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As someone on the spectrum, I'm drawn to these videos to help me figure out how to "people". They are helpful! At the same time they are confusing because videos like these encourage humor as a way to endear yourself to others, but other videos emphasize how using humor too much, or humor at the wrong moment, can make people dislike you. I guess what I need is a video to know when humor is appropriate and when it isn't.
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This is the perfect way to understand my own brand of humor and why I use it the way I do.... And how I can be better and more real than I feel comfortable being. But really... I find comfort in the people I who have given me hope, and comfort, and inspiration to change.
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Having done what this video speaks of, for most of my life, my problem was the opposite. I realized early on to curb my talkativeness.
At times I do relapse a bit then, catch myself.
Keeping several very brief jokes in my head at all times, I use one or two when I see that someone is having a bad day. Mostly, the ones who seem to need it are people who are stuck where they are such as cashiers in stores, servers, drive through workers. I always hope that I'm made a difference in their day even if only a small one.
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I like the idea of asking why as an open ended questions. I also like the idea of talking about things you like and jokes you like with new people to filter out who you want in your life. That pretty powerful.
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8:30 is truly the key to great relationships and overall happiness. As much as it hurts, sometime you have to remove yourself from others. My best friend is a great example. We were inseparable from age 17-20. I had moved on to different things but when we would see each other, it was as if time had stopped and our lives would pick back up. Her personality evolved to selfish, manipulative and so sad for her. I and my family had to back away because she and her husband became truly draining. I wanted it to work but sometime the stress isn't worth the friendship. Dont let persons bad attitudes be your anchor. Create your own anchor!
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The real skill here is making this all feel natural. Most people instinctually know the information in these videos. The problem is most people don't have enough practice to blend the two.
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