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157,762 Views • Apr 1, 2023 • Click to toggle off description
You are allowed to have main character energy right now. You’re allowed to make the best decisions for you, right now, you’re allowed to have standards and boundaries right now, you're allowed to receive and accept the nice treatment and the nice things right now. You can be the main character of your life right now!
Today we are getting off the sidelines and getting you in the driver's seat when it comes to your own life. We’re going to get right into the 6 steps you can follow to become the main character right now and start seeing a difference instantly. Let’s go!
Views : 157,762
Genre: Howto & Style
Date of upload: Apr 1, 2023 ^^
Rating : 4.985 (28/7,533 LTDR)
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Girl, you’re a Godsend. I was raised by an emotionally unavailable mom and your tips on self care are so useful
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I just turned 65 and just found your channel! I love it! It is so inspiring and challenging to me. I am determined to live my best life NOW!❤
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Come through sis! I just turn 35 and decided I’m tired of being the supporting character in my life, especially when it comes to family. No more over extending, I’m now showing people that my presence requires reciprocating or bye 👋🏽. I’ve noticed the difference in effort of others and also the resistance of others, which is fine by me.
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I love what you said about introversion. It's not about being shy, I just like to talk when I feel like I have something I want to say.
Being comfortable with silence and not always feeling like i need to talk to please others.
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Yesssss. Main character enegry now; not 50lbs later, not after the nice clothes and shoes......now! ❤
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This is a "Womanhood School." Thank you so much! I greatly appreciate it.
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I absolutely love your videos! I’m older and enjoy the evolution or confirmation I receive when watching your content. This is the only femininity channel I watch because you focus on self-development and not the overly saturated message of “how to get a man by being a feminine woman”. You are in a league of your own and may you continue to grow abundantly as you spread this beautiful message amongst younger women 💕❤️.
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Wow! The first line of the video is SO important. Women are told we need to change or buy something to feel self assured and peaceful but that is the farthest from the truth. Confidence is an inside job, so thank you for telling younger women this! I know I could have heard it in my early twenties.
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I needed this reminder ! I just finished a 4 day conference and I am definitely considered ‘extra’ and I also work in a male dominated field so my extra is amplified! After this video I now understand how to respond to negative and positive comments!
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Ma’am you have no idea how much I needed this vid!!
It came right on time!!
I haven’t even watched the entire vid yet
Just the intro gave me chills because this is exactly how I’ve been feeling.
I’ve always been the center of my own Universe but since I got married, had a child 9 years ago, experienced health problems and starting a new career, I’ve felt so super stifled.
I was so cute before!
I was so fit!
And although my husband is always reassuring, I just have not felt or looked like my old self!
I’ve been hitting the gym like crazy and working to get my business off the ground, so I am slowly getting back to it but I still struggle from time to time.
This video is a beautiful reminder to me to put me first so that I’m good for my family!!
Thank you so much!!
You’re amazing and your videos and advise have helped me so much!!
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@5:51 i am most def allowed to dismiss rude, toxic, unappreciative "ppl" Right NOW!
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This was wonderful and useful as always 💓
For me, main character means happiness and peace. Like, true happiness and peace, not pretending but actually having it. I haven't felt like this in a long while. I just want to experience that again.
I'm definitely going to try to implement a few of these tips to get there. Especially the self care and love one. As a black woman with albinism, life can be hard at times. Especially when it comes to accepting that I have albinism.
So, to be reminded of making a conscious effort to love myself was really great.
Thank you friend!
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I never thought it was self care...I enjoyed for 39 years candlelight baths, fewer friends but GREAT Friends, mani pedi, massages, difussers, candles, beautiful bedroom decor & bedding, BE LIKE Yourself your worth IT. Don't downplay your gifts, talents & blessing simply only share these with CLOSE Friends n Family. I recall all this & more taught by my SWEET Mother
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In the mid of this month, it's gonna be a year since I began following up with these videos and actually doing and not just listening. I'm elated. Thank you💎
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Since your channel is about feminine growth, I have a topic suggestion and request. Make a video on how to deal with mean and triggering females around you? Cutting them off is sometimes not an option so adjusting the behavior is important but I don't understand how to do that.
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I’m 17 and turning 18 soon and I’m preparing for adulthood and I’ve learnt so much thank you so much God bless you
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Here within the first hour. I love this channel
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Not 50lbs. from now, not when you have better clothing…felt that 🙏🏼
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I love the romanticising your life part especially as someone who lives asthetically pleasing things
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@nominoms9525
1 year ago
Hi, found your channel 2 months ago. I have started journaling. My plan is to reinvent myself. I was 139 kg when all started 2 months ago, i am now 124kg. I have created my business plan for my side hustle, took an online class to improve on my herbal knowledge for my side hustle and trying meditation. Thank you for reminding me who I have always wanted to be❤
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