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Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: May 4, 2022 ^^
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Personaly I have felt that while in love, brain gets a little bit foggy to analyse red flags. One needs to have a right set of friends to weigh there opinions.
Being a guy, I don't weigh 50-50 on looks. That's a 100 but when that's threshold is matched, a whole lot more things come into play like understanding, honesty, loyalty, trustworthiness, compatibility, goals, past behaviour, friends circle.
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Summary:
1. Having detailed conversations about the future is important for making life decisions like choosing a job or getting married.
2. Pay attention to the opinions of your friends and family if they express concerns about your relationship, as they may have insight into whether someone is right for you.
3. Men often prioritize physical attractiveness in a partner, but they also desire emotional support and TLC (tender loving care).
4. It's not healthy to seek a parental figure in a romantic relationship; instead, focus on being comfortable with each other's habits, lifestyles, and friend circles.
5. In the context of arranged marriages in India, it's crucial for parents to allow their children to have conversations and get to know each other before making a decision, as it can help address potential issues beforehand.
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I disagree with the part that if your friends say your partner isn't right dor you, they are right. It usually applies for men and their friends because 80% of times women don't like their friends' bfs and ask them to breakup at the drop of a hat.
Another red flag: if she has a male bestfriend. Sorry have burnt my fingers earlier.
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@80hazarkeshoeshain
2 years ago
I was dating this girl for many years. I didn't care about her looks, despite my friends telling me I could do better. I gave my energy, emotion, love, attention and my self respect to the girl but she went from a shy to a overconfident girl over a period of time when we went for college in different places. She started having problems hanging out with me and started belittling me on how I know nothing and her friends don't like me or have asked her to stay away from me cuz according to them she could do better. She chose to listen to them and would only call me when she would need me or wanted to rant about something. I held on till the last thread of our relationship broke. She made me feel so bad about myself. As if my self respect didn't count. I was there for her when she needed me, didn't care about how she looked or was as a person when we started dating. I gave her boost of confidence every now and then, and I made sure to make her a part of my friend circle even if she didn't want me to be a part of hers. I didn't pay attention to the red flags back then and when I broke up with her, she blamed me for everything and what not. I am happy today and looking back I think I took the right call. I even told my parents about her and wanted to marry her. Guys, the only take away from my story is, always look for a partner who enhances your self respect and gives you the confidence to do things in life not belittle you.
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