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Date of upload: Jan 7, 2022 ^^
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I have the same feelings and needs Rosie.
Think it's related to extreme lack of self worth, related to childhood experiences.I
Eroticising this seems a way the mind has of dealing with this, so being verbally abused and humiliated is actually arousing and liberating, like a drug.I
Thanks for speaking so openly about this.
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Your presentation is very courageous: admitting wanting even craving verbal humiliation in such an open way. Such cravings in me also have a causal link with nervous tension and feelings of anguish. I think for me there is a link with guilt in turn relating to incestuous experiences. Thank you. When both my parents died cravings to be humiliated were multiplied possibly tenfold: I didn’t know how to cope with overwhelming waves of panic and guilt.
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I liked your video. I've seen the same thing in my life, and my partner's lives. My partners do very well mentally, emotionally, and physically when they feel controlled. I can only imagine this is because life often feels out of control. I have also seen that certain mental conditions that have control-based elements, (Cutting, Over Eating, Autism and others) often do very well when they have control, or give control in their relationships. At the same time, I hear a lot of pushback from the community about this all.
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Rosie-
Bless you for your honesty. It’s a breath of fresh air.
Secondly, your request from your mate was perfectly logical for many reasons.
A) All of us are under such intense pressure from so many factors anymore…to have all the pressure (therefore problem) removed…is a huge weight off your shoulders.
B) Well documented that individuals that maintain a “controlled” position in life (ie.Doctors, Lawyers, Politicians etc) realize after awhile they require some means to keep in balance.
What do I mean?
Your Job= One side teeter/totter.
Gratification= other side
Quite often it may require a Toilet as an example. Or a whole host of degradation
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It's been a couple of years since we spoke over the phone just the once, but I remember our call well and found it helpful (and fun) as I requested you to play out a scenario where you abused your position as a therapist to humiliate and degrade me, which allowed me to connect directly with my true Self and experience broken trust without the collateral damage that occurs when it's enacted in real life by malicious intent. The reason I never called back (besides being a wastrel trying to sample every flavour of girl under the sun) is that I transcended the need for therapy because I could no longer communicate the scope and depth of insight into my own mind that I have attained, even to qualified individuals such as yourself.
In this admission I extol my own unique success rather than any professional's failure. I've internalised and edified the therapeutic toolset to an apex where I am now able to psychoanalyse others around me and consistently direct them towards higher states of being without ever receiving formal training. What's interesting to me is the reversal of roles I find myself in upon watching you express your own struggles and how much I can read from your body language and microexpressions as you discuss specific points, particularly those surrounding your partner. I've also seen his picture and can read into what type of man he is and what kind of relationship you have with him too; as a great philosopher once said: 'I think it would be quite something to know [you] in private life'.
Perhaps when I get my finances together I'll call back and catch up with you again sometime.
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Excellent video, first time I've heard a person address the topic in this way, without morbidity.
I think they are things that we bring with us at birth and in other cases we learn them from childhood and they are cultural, as in the case of my country where we are taught from childhood to respect white foreigners like you, but from Spain and the UK, because of my age. I read in books and now young people with YouTube and other videos that are even requested by UK and Spanish schools.
Thank you for sharing it in a professional manner and explaining the feelings very well.
I see that their videos are made for pleasure and not for the purpose of obtaining money and that makes them more valuable even though some of us would like to send a tribute that would be in reciprocity for their extraordinary work. Greetings from Veracurz Mexico to you and your husband.
You are a very attractive white woman with enormous empathy.😀😉.
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Spit humiliation has one upside; it transforms by sexualizing something that normally would be a horrible and degrading experience. This probably applies to other forms of humiliation also. I think that enjoying being humiliation precedes from past trauma and sexualizing painful experiences to invert and transform them onto pleasure. The obvious question is isn't this reinforcing past trauma and thus anti therapeutic?
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Rosie, let me tell you, you're definitely not fat, ugly, or unattractive. Think you're brave, honest and have great personality, unfortunately we live in bullshit world. Getting to involved in the internet crap not good for your mind. if it is a bit of fun fetish, humiliation is fine. But real life you don't deserve humiliation and shouldn't put up with it. Value yourself you seem like a lovely lady. hope you have great life.
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@petersirca223
1 year ago
Thank you for your honesty. I wish I had the courage to be so publicly open about my own desires. Chapeau !
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