@ravensong7128

7 months ago

About the, “being bisexual is the new being Italian…”bit… It is funny as a joke but sad because so many people actually seriously think that. As a bisexual, I’ve been excluded by homosexuals on the basis of being “not gay enough for their club” and told I shouldn’t take the conversation of legalizing gay marriage and same sex activity that seriously because I can still have heterosexual relationships that are based off of genuine attraction. But when I have to hide the part of myself that’s attracted to the same sex and force myself not to act on my feelings of falling in love with another female or else I could be excluded from heterosexual circles that isn’t acceptance at all, is it? I’m also a mixed race kid, and I’ve got to tell you there’s a lot of parallels from when people say stuff about how I should, “pick a side” I’m too black for the white group, too white for the black group, too Hispanic for this or that group too native for this or that people and some people are annoyed that I list four different races when they ask me what I am instead of just picking one or two. I do eventually find people who either don’t care or think it’s really cool that I’m a mixed race bisexual non-binary person, but all of the unnecessary af crap I get for it every now and then is tiring.

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