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Original Video:    â˘Â Who Pays on a First Date? - Matthew H... Â
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I was in a 3-year relationship I always paid and took her on trips, and in the end, she was like I didn't do enough.
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A girl I was dating with for 2 months never at once offered to pay when we were going out. Granted she was earning minimum wage, but the gesture would have mattered mattered so much. We went out for about 2 months till eventually she ended things.
I eventually met up with another girl I havenât seen for 9 months at a mutual friends gathering. Iâm gonna marry this girl in 2 months. My fiancĂŠe has always offered to pay and is very respectful towards both our time. Being appreciative and respectful goes a long way!
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Courtney, it is refreshing to see a young woman with your poise and outlook on life. As a man who's been married for 40 years, I can tell you that a relationship needs 2 people that "want" to do something for the other one. When my wife and I were dating, sometimes I'd take her to dinner when I could afford it and other times she cooked for me. It was all about trying to make each other feel loved and special no matter what we did. Neither one of us ever had much and we never expected anything from each other.
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This guy was on point. There is a difference between men being chivalrous and being used. Like he said, it is not about the lack of money, but the lack of gesture. Back in the day, I was taught I should always pay for everything when dating. However, these days women are working full time too, yet hold on to their belief that men should pay for everything always. Women want men's equality like they are picking from a guys life like it's a buffet. Women: "Same amount an hour, we'll take that, pay for the dinner fnck that, you can keep that".
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I couldnât agree more. Effort is one of the most attractive things someone can display when dating. Entitlement is probably the biggest turn off
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A woman and I were planning our first date. I asked her to think of what she'd like to do. The next day we talked and ironed out the details. In doing so, she asked me "do you have expendable income?". This absolutely floored me! I was never treated with this level of honor and respect, not once! I posed the question back to her. After dinner we split the expenses. We didn't talk about it, we just did it. At that point, I thanked her for the respect she had given me the day prior. She's an excellent, honest, reasonable, and respectful woman and I'm very happy that she is in my life in what ever capacity that is and will be. This was my first date and attempt at a relationship in 12 years.
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I almost brought my dad to tears when I said that he is doing enough, he works all day and comes home to a house that he feels obligated to clean every day. I told him that he was raised that way and that its ok if you are burned out and canât do that little extra bit. My father doesnât cry unless something gently touches his heart and I hope he remembers that I know and appreciate how much he does for me
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I asked my mom about this a few years ago...she was clear, she would not let our dad, her first and only husband, pay for expensive dinners/dates. She WORRIED about his finances---she worried about HIM, and showed respect for HIM. My mom was a vivacious, physically beautiful woman, had plenty of choices in guys, but showed my dad that she was interested ONLY in him.
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Matthew said it perfectly, my boyfriend had told me about the countless of times where the girl would never say thank you for a paid date and how they were never satisfied, and those tend to be the same girls that complain about being single or having an unhappy relationship and end up settling đ¤Śđ˝ââď¸
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Iâve been unsuccessful with dating and have gone down multiple unhealthy rabbit holes in the Internet that do nothing but discourage me and highlight my insecurities. I canât tell you how refreshing it feels to hear somebody with a more balanced point of you with dating.
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That best friend analogy that he used around 6:10 Was spot on actually. Thatâs how things are on my best friend, sometimes I pay sometimes they pay sometimes we split the bill, but itâs collectively agreed on that we both go back-and-forth itâs not just one person paying for everything.
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Relationships are very messed up today. To even talk to anyone is hard, let alone being with one. That is human nature though, they always want more. Be happy and grateful for what you have and enjoy life.
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"Don't invest in someone based on how much you like
them, invest in them based on how much they invest in you."
-Mattew Hussey
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This helped me understand why I am feeling angry and frustrated with my current relationship but didn't know how to put it into words until now. Thank you.
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Both Matt and Courtney are so incredibly based with this take and the world needs more of it. Thank you.
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Not sure if the girl realized this, but I had a first date on Tuesday and I paid for our coffee at the coffee shop and then when we went to grab dinner she picked up the tab without hesitation while I went to the bathroom. Dinner was the more expensive bill of the two. Score one for the boys!
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I'm with you Courtney. My wife and I have been married for thirty years. She still thanks me for anytime that we go out or even bringing food in. Always. That's why it's been thirty years. Thank you Courtney.
PS. You and T have a lovely weekendđ¤
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I have just discovered your channel today, and I thought what you and Matthew Hussey had to say made sense. Its thoughtful, considerate, and proper etiquette behavior to help out what and when you can. I have been with the same man for 31 years, 29 years married. It's a good refresher to hear from a man's point of view on how to treat your partner. Thank you! :) :D
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Nice to hear from someone living in the real world. Sadly, so many young people seem to think that they should be treated like superstars despite the fact that they have not actually achieved anything or earned the respect and privilege.
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@datmanydocris
1 year ago
I had this discussion with a female friend once when she was saying that the man should always pay because it's the traditional thing to do. I simply asked her if she was a traditional woman. She said she didn't understand. I asked her if she was a virgin when she started dating her boyfriend, she said no. I asked her if she cooks dinner for her boyfriend every night, she said no. I asked her if once they got married and had children if she was planning on becoming a housewife and would stay home to run the house and raise the kids, she said no. I then simply asked her that if she has no intention of being a traditional woman, why should she expect her man to be or feel entitled to a traditional man?
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