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Nick Viall is an LA-based award-winning podcast host, best-selling author, entrepreneur, and a familiar face from ABC’s “The Bachelor”. He has also carved a niche for himself as a contemporary voice in the world of dating advice. His podcast, "The Viall Files," is a treasure trove of insights on relationships and pop culture, amassing over 100 million downloads.
In this episode Nick discusses how to distinguish between seeking validation and experiencing true love, strategies for moving on gracefully from a relationship and overcoming heartbreak, future predictions for the dating world and advice for maintaining authenticity in relationships.
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00:00:00 - Intro
00:03:03 - Lessons Learned from Love Relationships
00:06:00 - Love, Ego, and Relationships
00:09:02 - The Difference Between Validation and Love
00:11:53 - The Switch from Seeking Validation to Acceptance
00:15:01 - Holding on to Pain and Relationships
00:17:54 - Letting Loose and Making Bad Decisions
00:20:45 - Overcoming a Breakup with Grace
00:23:49 - Accepting the Loss and Moving On
00:26:41 - Stuck in the Past
00:29:33 - The Danger of Seeking Validation on Social Media
00:32:30 - Prioritizing in a Relationship
00:35:24 - The Importance of Compatibility in Relationships
00:38:31 - Red flags to look out for when dating someone.
00:41:35 - Accepting Love and Self-Love
00:44:27 - Embracing Imperfections and Overcoming Fear
00:47:22 - The Importance of Reinventing Yourself
00:50:07 - Teaching Values and Self-Worth
00:53:19 - Teaching Love and Value Without Toxicity
00:56:32 - The Lost Art of Communication
00:59:21 - Prioritizing Connection in Relationships
01:02:13 - The Power of Intention
01:05:16 - The Most Meaningful Thing
01:08:10 - The Importance of Resiliency in Overcoming Challenges
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
If you’re reading this I’m praying you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.❤
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I’ve followed Nick on the Bachelorette and on the Bachelor and listen to his podcasts as well. I applaud Nick for being this vulnerable and to share with us his life struggles and what he’s learned from them. It took strength and resiliency.
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YES! My biggest moment in this interview was to stop seeking out validation and start looking for love instead
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As a woman in her early 20s it was refreshing and inspirational even to see two men who just get it. Two men, talking about topics some might deem too “soft” for men to speak about. Thank you for spreading the word.
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Beautiful podcast. Insightful. I didn't know there are men that put this much thought into healthy relationships. This helps me understand that I can have and want someone who values this.
Thanks.
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‘The pain doesn’t mean they were special’ WOW just WOW
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The missing ingredient: I think the different attachment styles need to be part of these discussions. Some people are just not going to do the work to change their learned attachment styles that cause a great detriment to their romantic relationships.
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This is what the ego does.
The ego can be an integral part of the self that often has to do with self-image and may mediate between instinctual desires and the external world. While the ego may help individuals control their emotions and thoughts, a weakened or underdeveloped ego may contribute to mental health
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Yes, certainly. Aa usual, another amazing interview!! Thanks a bunch 💐
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This was great stuff. Thanks Nick and Lewis!
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Awesome Podcast Nick and Lewis 💖. I agree with you and appreciate the importance you put on being resilient in life Nick. Indeed where would any of us be if we lost even one challenge or opportunity, etc. and never got back up again. Instead of giving a loss the power to defeat us for the rest of our lives we can look at it as an opportunity to figure out a way to resolve this situation. Some have done it by accepting the loss and finally being okay with it by moving forward. Some have not looked at it as a loss but as something temporarily unsolved so they put it to the side to be further worked on. Some have watched as a loss turns into a glorious event they never could have imagined. We must just never allow ourselves to suffer a permanent defeat in life when there's still so much to learn and enjoy here on earth, nature, animals, food that's so good to eat, good books to read, a nice person like ourself who may end up being our best friend in the future though we haven't even met yet. Thanks for spreading positivity guys. It's so awesome seeing more and more channels like yours and hearing stories of people all over the world who want to see positive role models and positive values instilled in both our children and adults. So thank you so much 🙂💖
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Thank you Lewis for all of the high quality content you provide! Love it! This interview with Nick was so insightful for both women and men! Appreciate you guys as good quality men!
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Yes and thank u for making video on this topic.
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Grateful for Nick Viall! Taught me a lot about relationships advice. Thank you ! New subscriber here! 🙋🏼♀️
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I’ve heard the word « hard » so many times in this interview. If we use the messages from the book The Secret, if we want life be easy, our vocabulary should be in line with that. So life does have its challenges, but if we want it to be easy and fun, let’s change the way we talk about it. Life is good!
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Love the great questions you ask, Lewis! Those are interesting interview questions that brought out the core values and introspection of the guest!👏
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Scary...i can relate to everything in this interview...❤
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Please share more! Ideas to keep us single!
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Both aree kind and wise. and humble. And it's a little new
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Thanks to Nick for sharing his expertise! Leave a “YES” if you enjoyed this and share the biggest moment for you. And make sure to subscribe to never miss out on inspiring content like this again youtube.com/lewishowes
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