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Mystery link: • What a toxic friend looks like
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Date of upload: Aug 30, 2022 ^^
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Always gonna encourage being the best friend you can possibly be BUT just a reminder that there are some who will take advantage of that
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my favorite part about Swoozie is that he still dresses like he's in 2010
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"Everyone wants to be the victim, but nobody wants to be the villian." - swoozie
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My therapist asked me yesterday, "Would you say your friends are sensitive?" And I immediately answered yes.
Then she clarified, "Sensitive meaning they are sensitive towards your feelings?"
And I was like... "Oh... no. Not at all. I am that for them fir most of them."
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Lmao this is so accurate and timely, just had a convo yesterday with a good friend of mine about how I couldn’t deal with her problematic tendencies anymore and I wake up to an essay’s worth of angry texts from her🚶🏾♂️
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Another day, no swoozie...I miss him
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Most of the time, friends usually just need someone to listen when they talk about their problems. Don't automatically assume they need advice. Also, it's 100% harder when you're in the situation yourself so ofc advices would be easier said than done. It's a little frustrating to see my friends staying in toxic situations even after they've talked about it a million times but I choose to be patient and understanding. But if being the therapist friend is draining for you it's completely fine to set boundaries.
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I used to be entertained by swoozie a couple of years back but now im not only entertained but inspired and learn so much about storytelling now that i have a channel … Thank You Swoozie ❤️🔥💯
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these videos are always PERFECTLY timed. thank you swoozie 🙏
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0:50 I’m pretty sure that’s what therapy is for.
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Self reflection is key. No lies detected. Love ya and thank you Swoozie 💕
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Damn the timing of this video is ON POINT.
Just two days ago one of my friends decided not to be friends anymore with one of our mutual friends even tho they were like besties, because the drama got too much. Honestly can't even blame them, they do be right.
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Funny enough, psychologically we are wired to like a person better that asks us for help. Regardless of what they do in return for us. And every single person is that way for some reason. We feel closer to them as a result. Maybe its because to ask for help subconsciously signals that a person is showing humility or vulnerability by asking for help in the first place. So not actually a bad thing to ask for help, in fact it only helps you.
That being said, if some toxic trait really bothers you about a friend, I'd say just talk to them about it. Often times they will do things subconsciously or as a force of habit without even thinking about it. Doesn't mean that they have bad intentions necessarily. If it's causing you grief, don't bottle it up because that will just cause you to hold things against them or feel negatively towards them in some way. Just have an honest face to face conversation with them about it. Point is just communicate with your friend, they don't know what's going on inside your mind either and they can't change their behavior if they're not aware of a problem. Don't be the friend that just bottles things up or fails to communicate because that makes you the shitty friend as well.
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One thing I like about myself is when I'm telling my friends my issues n asking for advice, I'll admit to them what may have come off wrong or what I may have done wrong in a situation
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To answer the question of the video thumbnail: some of us are good at giving others second chances, and some of us also give people the benefit of the doubt FAR too often. It's the reason why I don't really have a lot of friends, but the friends I do have always have my back.
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SwooZie has been through it all and shares his knowledge to his students. Truly, a top tier teacher of the game
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I honestly needed to hear this Swooz. Thank you so much for this video; it gives me reassurance that I’m not the only one feeling that my close friend had become somewhat problematic.
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Listening to Swoozie's storytelling and advice maybe makes me realize that we need people like him to support for a friend in need, thank you, Swoozie for being a true and real "you" to show us what a support friend needs for those people who have big problems in life to guide and support them in a right way! 🙏🙂❤️
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I didn't have a lot of friends growing up either, in my late teens early 20s I started making friends and was easier as I grew up. However I also had the same problem where I attracted either takers, or codependent people or ones that just didn't have my best interests and kept me around because I was useful.
Thankfully I dropped so many "friends" in my latter 20s and things are much clearer in my 30s.
You can smell the bullshit a mile away at this age lol, that's why I love my 30s.
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@SoniasWay
1 year ago
I can relate so much. I wish I had people around me who want to talk about solutions rather than complaining and blaming
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