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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Because they masked themselves as a healthy person, who we ideally all want to be with
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I am alone and it is a step up from being with the narcissist.
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Love Bomb = tactics to form emotional attachment in advance of sufficient earned trust to hold that attachment secure
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It's ironic that it was my ex's humour was what I fell in love with first and my own ability to laugh was something he caused me to lose. Fortunately, it was the first thing to return after I dumped him
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Dr Ramani, I'm a therapist who got love bombed by a colleague. Through your channel I'm assured this colleague is a vulnerable narcissist. It's the intense love bombing compliments, confusion, dismissive of issues, and the absent alignment of words and actions.
I'm now backing off, however, he is getting angry for me not responding to his texts or asking about my dating life even though he has told me he's not looking for a relationship.
Even professionals have to encounter narcissistic colleagues!!
Dr Ramani, thank you so much for bringing this information into the light.
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My ex was never funny. She didn't have a funny bone in her body. She fooled me with the sad story and sex.
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He always told me I couldn't take a joke. Problem was. . . I was the joke!!!
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If you don't fall in line you are held in contempt. Don't laugh, kiss ass, agree with a lie. You get the cold shoulder.
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Wow, this describes my last Relationship. He made me laugh until he didn't. 😢😮
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My late malignant narcissist husband never love bombed me after we got married. I kid you not he told me there would be no terms of endearment like honey or baby. Not kidding. He joked that his pet name for me was sh&thead. Not kidding. And according to him our "song" was "Your Not Worth the Salt of My Tears". I again kid you not. He was mean. Its been 12 years since he died and I still remember. Words often hurt as bad or worse than physical abuse. If he had hit me he knew I would end it. So verbal abuse was his go to move. I so do not miss him. But the abuse stays with me. Not on the surface but present none the less.
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Wow. People always asked me what I saw in him. To this day, my response has always been, “he made me laugh.” 😔
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Please also make a video about Narcissistic people who are not successful at all and extort money out of their supply who initially gives out huge sums out of love and even pity.
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It was the attention he gave me. Because not much people gave me such an attention. But I know now I was naive and I trusted too easily.
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As a fearful avoidant, love bombing actually always scared me and made me feel icky 😵💫
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I've unfortunately been in 2 narcissistic relationships, the first one was charismatic and the love bombing was obvious and quickly turned into devaluation and control as soon as I was trapped. However, it was way easier to leave that relationship despite we had a special child together. His lack of concern and hatred towards me and the child was a good motivator to move out though it took a good 4 years of my life.
The second one was not charming or charismatic. He was even broke! However he put on the mask of empathy and laughter. He genuinely made me laugh and when we were finally together, he began extorting money out of me making excuses and making me feel pity for his failures. This relationship turned out to be even worse than the one with the grandiose narcissist. It was horrible. The contempt, control, devaluation and humiliation left me physically sick, almost to the point of being crippled. I nearly lost all my money too but thanks to some bit of luck that I had, I was able to remove him from being the beneficiary of my bank account. Still I haven't fully recovered physically, haven't been able to get out and am pretty confused and disorientated most of the time
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Perfect word! "Psychological Catfish" YES!!!
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After experiencing the love bombing phase followed by devaluation and discard really made me doubt if the relationship was genuine or not. It started to make me question, if love isn’t real, and if it’s just an illusion created by another person.
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Unfortunately, I still go for what I did not get in childhood, if someone seems to see me an seems to be genuinely interested in me. Something narcissists seem to do when they target you.
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this is too weird because my narc father sat me down and asked me how I wanted to be loved when I was a kid then half assed it to gain custody and kick me out the day after I turned 18
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@LisaLee__
2 months ago
"You know, when you look at someone through rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags" - Bojack Horsemans Ex girlfriend
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