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Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: Aug 8, 2020 ^^
Rating : 4.967 (457/54,818 LTDR)
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I just wrote how I am feeling:
I Tried…
I tried so hard to be the person he wanted me to be to have and keep his love.
Turns out, my flaws and imperfections were still too much for him to tolerate.
I felt as though all I was good for was cooking, cleaning, laundry, sex, and a decent looking travel partner.
I still wasn’t enough…. 😢
I hope and pray that one day I find THE man that can and will love me for me, not what he wants me to be.
In the meantime, I can be myself, flaws and imperfections included.
It will only happen if I never again try to be what someone else wants.
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In my whole life, I stayed like a perfect daughter, perfect girlfriend, perfect friend even im not happy. After that I realized they didnt appreciate me and they just leave when they found someone who they like. But after all this happened, I found myself Im living alone but not lonely, focusing on myself so life is much better and now i see how much the world is beautiful. Im not saying to be alone but sometimes if u give time urself u will know how precious u are.❤
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My mom showed this to me in high school as I was an outcast, I tossed the song aside as I thought it was cheesy but every now and again as an adult I listen to it and think “why didn’t listen?” Oh the things I would tell my younger self just so she wouldn’t have to go thru so much pain. This song still brings me to tears
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I'm secretly struggling with an eating disorder, only my close friends know, I have to force myself to eat in front of my parents so I seem 'normal' I constantly weigh myself, people have made fun of me because I'm 'fat' but I lost twenty pounds in a month, by basically just starving. And it's been rly hard, and this song, just helped me so much. ❤️❤️❤️
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The reason I try to stop being insecure, even though it’s great to express your feelings, I know when I’m older, My older self will tell myself now ‘why did you ever doubt yourself?’ And I would I answer with..‘I don’t know..’ until I know why I’m insecure, I refuse to be! I listen to this song continuously throughout the song..Because I say to myself
‘I don’t need someone else’s opinion to look good’
‘I don’t need to try for someone that may not even approve of it.’
‘I don’t need to get peoples approval to feel and look good’
‘I don’t need someone else to say “you look good” to me, when I can tell myself that 24/7 and actually mean it.’
It may not work for others! But I have spent my whole childhood doubting myself and I’m tired of it, I appreciate my legs, they carry me through the days I’m alive, I appreciate my shoulders, they carry a lot that I don’t even notice, I appreciate my feet, they walk me through even the hardest of times. I appreciate myself, for coming this far! I hope this message helps because we should all know, Boy, Girl, Or in the between, LGBTQIA+ or Straight, we are all humans and at the end of the day, that’s what we all are. I hope this helps <3
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I love ❤️ this song 🎵 It helped me when my hub passed away suddenly I would sing 🎤 this song 🎵 to myself so I would get up , get up , everyday and try Out my makeup on .. get my nails done 💅 So I wouldn’t stay curled up in my bed depressed and crying 24/7 It healed me so much Ty for writing this song Colbie Ur a doll and an angel 😇
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for all the people who wanted to be like those people you see on tv and on social media keep in mind they don’t look like that in real life majority of the time it’s photo shopped or edited. This song in other words is saying be the best version of yourself and love yourself. you shouldn’t have to change just for other people to like you real people will love the real you :)
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@ayresszh2051
1 year ago
This songs speaks volume to the current generation
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