Views : 957,079
Genre: Film & Animation
Date of upload: Mar 18, 2022 ^^
Rating : 4.755 (919/14,072 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2022-04-09T18:42:33.462906Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
As a victim of sexual child abuse what buffles me is how much help the offenders get but how little options there is for victims. I understand that the treatment stops the offenders from hurting others but we, the victims need to function in society as well. I am affected to this day, pay for expensive therapy and don't get the government to help me because I can't keep a job due to my trauma.
Another thing is the reaction of the neighbors to the girls being abused, taunting them at school for being victims of something so horrific speaks volumes about the society. It's absolutely disgusting.
I appreciate the fact that this man was honest about what he has done. I had to hide the secret of who my abuser was because of how many people it could affect which is fucked as well. Victims protecting other people's feelings while they suffer.
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I spent 17 years as a child abuse investigator. What I saw over and over was women who's fathers had abused them would allow their fathers to babysit. Their thought process was that yes he abused me, his daughter, but he surely wouldn't abuse his granddaughter. Guess how that turned out. Please don't make this mistake ladies. Once an abuser always an abuser.
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Having been molested by my Mother until the age of Fourteen, this interview completely enrages me. My recently deceased mother never went to prison. She had a good life and died a multi-millionaire. People have no idea of how damaging this type of abuse is. Life is a daily struggle because of my mother. I wasn't anything but a piece of s**t to her. I'm still wondering if I'll ever see the $500 she left me in her will. If I do, I'll be sure to spend it on something she wouldn't approve of.
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As someone who has a quite good understanding of human psychology. I can say that those who crossed that boundary of being abusive tend to continue abusing. There are those who manage to correct their behaviour, but it's not the norm. A paedophile can never stop being one, but he/she can choose to not abuse. It provokes me a lot when he said "I damaged my daughter for life, but despite molesting her I was a good father.". A good father would have gone to prison over men like him if necessary.
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I was 6 years old when a man molested me. He was my babysitter that was across the hall from where I had lived with my mom and her abusive boyfriend. She would have him watch me while she did drugs or went out. The things he said to me just seemed to make sense and at the time I didn't know what was happening was wrong. I am filled with shame and guilt every day even though I know I was too young to understand what he was doing. A few years later when I was around 12 or something I get pulled out of school thinking I did something bad lol. Turns out, some detectives wanted me to talk about what happened to me and that he was caught and had done it to 4 other children which were all older than me. I would tell them something very close to the truth, but while being filled with immense shame and guilt because I never did anything to stop it, because I really didn't understand what was happening, I told them I struggled and whatnot. He was imprisoned for like 35 to life and died very recently in prison. I thought his death was going to help me but in reality it made the thought of closure that much further away. I want to talk to him face to face and really understand what it was that made him that person to want to do such a thing to an innocent and undeserving child. These videos have been giving me very important insight into what could have motivated him to do these things. Anyways, I would like to add that my mom has fully recovered from drug abuse and we live together with my grandma. I never really blamed her for it because I understand that she feels sorry for what happened, but nonetheless, its hard to get over. I still live with the guilt and shame and never really open up to anyone about it. I hopefully will seek therapy in the future as I feel I am losing my mind..
(p.s the amount of anxiety before hitting the comment button is pretty high. But I feel like I needed to get this off of my chest one way or another.)
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@anam289
6 months ago
He says he had "sexual intercourse" with his daughter. That's called rape, call it what it is! Sickening.
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