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Genre: Music
Date of upload: Sep 14, 2023 ^^
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he was 18, it was his first relationship. I was incredibly in-love and found my person.. but he was only 18 so I assumed he wouldn't have been with me forever, because nobody ever stays with their first lover I thought. Me worrying and being insecure about the uncertain future sabotaged us, when I should've just held on tighter and let myself love; instead of letting him slip through my fingers like bar soap.
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I’m a dreamer at heart, often caught up in my own head. Maybe a trauma response of sorts, growing up in a broken home, you will look for any kind of escape you can find, and for me that was in my head. I can sit and think of crazy hypotheticals for hours, “what if,” this, and “maybe,” that. It gives me such a detachment from reality sometimes, because it’s so much easier to live in my head. I never have to commit to my hypotheticals, they can just stay silly little ideas in my brain. This makes it really hard to live in the moment, hard to find purpose, hard to accomplish anything. I’ve recently been trying to be a lot more intentional with my time and my relationships, because I want to take control back in my life
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This song describes so much of how i've been feeling lately.. Kind of torn between "Now is all i have guaranteed, i could die at any moment, and i already have health problems." And "I might as well embrace life right now and also believe in the future, otherwise every day is just another day i once again tell myself there is no tomorrow." As a man of faith, i feel a very specific way about this.
The idea of traumatic bonds itself feels somewhat suggestive to the definition of trauma being something that can't be unraveled or overwritten. Also, something i don't like about the English language is how there are many double definitioned words that make sentence structuring feel oxymoronic and dumbed down, and a lot of things people say are untrustworthy, so i am sometimes hesitant to take their words at face value, which makes me feel unintentionally introverted sometimes, but also, reading too deep into things isn't good for the brain. Not obsessing over thoughts is important, even when being able to draw logical conclusions. There are a lot of things you can have justified anger about, valid feelings of discontent and sadness, hating an unfair factor of a situation, and hating someone's fakeness, and standing against the false narrative that they tell theirself, and hating how it feels to be seemingly the only one who "gets it."
There are significant things that i've come to terms with that someone else might not ever even think about, and/or would just nod their head with nothing to say if i told them, but it is even more important to pursue personal liberation, rather than trying to teach someone who doesn't want to be taught. I've always been the guy who speaks up, even if just out of sheer discontent about what's wrong, but i like this song, it reminds me to not let someone else negatively affect how i feel about my own liberation.
I often hate people without actually hating them. I think people are often uncompassionate idiots who are stubborn and ignorant.
I've spent so many years brooding about them, to my own lack of satisfaction about things, but you make me want to reassess where i apply my care tokens, for the best. Thanks.
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@giandes2536
7 months ago
i just love so much the way you write and produce music. this is so much more than just songs
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