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Genre: Entertainment
Date of upload: Mar 22, 2024 ^^
Rating : 4.945 (1,251/89,673 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-16T21:02:48.829444Z
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It's crazy to compare this to another lady I've seen cleaning graves (edit: A Grave Attraction, I believe) She finds the ones that are completely overgrown and so coated in things that you can't read them. She cleans them carefully with soap safe for the plants and the stone, and does research on the people, telling us their life story and getting in contact with some of the family if she can. She leaves flowers on the graves and is super respectful the entire time. You really get the sense that she's doing this to share forgotten stories.
This....well, it's certainly not that
(Edit: like many of the replies, I was also really worried this vid was going to be about her and I was trying to figure out why Jarvis was against it. Glad to say they're different people! Also, I believe the channel name is "a Grave Attraction")
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I'm a former cemetery caretaker and her using those chemicals is going to absolutely erode those stones so fast. We use a specific cleaner, usually D2, which removes biological pollutants from stone. She is doing massive damage. She also needs specific permission not only from the families but from the cemetery to do that cleaning (which she definitely wouldn't get, because cemeteries have caretakers for a damn reason, and families approach them to ask about cleaning, not some random Tiktok woman).
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Her cutting all the plants around the grave and then putting crappy plastic ones there actually made me upset. That's so insulting and disrespectful to me, those plants could have been placed there by the family. They could have been growing for decades. Even if they werent, the plants would actually provide protection and shelter from the elements.
I genuinely hope this woman gets in legal trouble and has to shut down her brand.
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I gasped when she started chainsawing the tree around the grave.
It’s a tradition in my family to plant a tree above/bury a loved one below a tree and let the land reclaim them as a symbol of them continuing on in this world in a different fashion.
The idea of a stranger cutting the growth back is horrifying to me - I’d be devastated if it were my/my family’s grave. Her disregard is appalling.
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Imagine dying, asking your family to plant your favorite tree where you are buried, maybe you want nature to reclame you, maybe you love the shade of the tree, whatever, and some random woman cuts it down, sprays her toxic pink concoction on you grave to "clean it" then puts her own plants and the only question in that empty head if hers is "were they pretty?"
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18:07 I hate how she was STANDING on the grave.
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Nope, she needs to be STOPPED; (Méxican here) Bienvenida falleció is a way to say welcome to the death life, or welcome to your death in Spanish RESPECTIVELY. Lugo Velez was her name, which I'm quite sure is of Spanish origin, and yes; it can be male or female, but seeing as how it says bienvenida, I'll assume Lugo was a woman, Lugo can maybe even be short for a longer name. On the grave it says that she will be remembered by her daughters and and family, and at the bottom it says D. E. P. which stands for 'descansa en paz' which means rest in peace, so yes, it's pretty much Spanish R. I. P.
She does NOT deserve to be disrespected by all this, and this woman.
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I just want to add, cleaning graves without the proper cleaning supplies can actually damage them and make them worse. This person does not care and is incredibly disrespectful.
Edit: holy shit she uses untested cleaning spray not meant for tombstones she is 100% damaging those poor people’s graves.
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@GingerRae1421
1 month ago
Her cutting down the tree made me so upset, my grandma wished to be buried with a decomposable casket and a sapling, so she could become a tree. She is now a lovely premature willow. Imagine if Doris had a similar story..
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