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0:00 Intro
1:52 Aura Ad
3:06 Indianapolis Incident
7:02 BREAKING NEWS
8:15 Ashley's Apology
10:26 When Can This Be Joked About?
12:32 Is Crowd Work Sustainable?
15:35 Getting Canceled
16:44 Outro

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@greenhouseghostie

10 months ago

It's so wild that the criteria for a good apology video now is 1) say the words "I am sorry", and 2) don't perform the ukelele or an interpretive dance.

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@friendlybane

10 months ago

You can joke about anything, including su*cide. You just have to make sure that your jokes aren't at the expense of victims. This applies to anything bad or controversial: make fun of the idea of the thing or the perpetrators of the thing. Just don't make fun of the victims.

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@Katy-ys6rn

10 months ago

The problem is, there was no joke, this wasn't even "crowd work". Hell, even Ashley has done plenty of "edgy" crowd work that was still funny and didn't cross a line. But this was simply an emotional, overaly aggressive, extremely personal, over reaction...and TO what, I still don't understand. It shouldn't have happened.

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@shannond1511

10 months ago

Has anyone noticed she’s only this mean to women audience members? What gets me is a bunch of ppl reacted the same way to the same joke, yet she specifically picked out only one of them to harass. Love the thing with the blind woman, proves my point, she saw a woman that appeared like an easy target and it backfired for once. If ppl being blind triggers you, you’re definitely the problem

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@daintybeigli

10 months ago

I’m confused … how is telling people to off themselves breaking down stigma and helping people feel less alone?!?! I’m all about dark humour, but that’s not what Ashley is doing here.

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@AzuraFallen

10 months ago

Her saying she let her emotions get the better of her makes it worse for me. It means she meant it in that moment. She was angry and she wanted to hurt that fan, disgusting. I thought at first that she made a joke that was distasteful at least but hurtful, I was wrong uck.

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@shannond1511

10 months ago

Her “roasts” are not even clever, she literally just says mean things to you

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@moonfairy2325

10 months ago

A friend of mine was a big fan and invited me to her show. I hadn't heard of her, but I'm a queer woman who likes raunchy humor, so I thought it'd be fun. She was the meanest comedian I've ever seen. It felt like she guilt tripped us the whole show for not laughing enough, and she would harshly ridicule those who didn't laugh loudly. I was so afraid she'd target me that I almost left, but then she yelled at someone else for leaving. So I just froze in fear and laughed as hard as I could (at unfunny jokes). My friend wanted to meet her, so I did that for her, then got tf outta there. Seeing her face again makes me feel icky. I feel awful for people who had such sickening things said to them, I hope they're all doing ok <3

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@steviescribbles

10 months ago

Everyone mark the date when Harry became a sponsored YTber. Our little guy is growing up

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@cas6359

10 months ago

she’s always given me weird vibes whenever i cross over her videos. like i guess it’s just the aggressive nature that she’s going for but it still was weird. when you stand up on stage all day screaming at people for a living, you’re going to eventually think you can scream anything.

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@rat_enthusiast

10 months ago

I wanna comment something deep, but that shark hat/pink hair/floral shirt combo goes so hard. You’ve really blessed this platform tbh

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@mothmos

10 months ago

she comes off as being abrasive with insecurity and anger issues, projecting it out onto people, masked as 'CoMeDy'

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@t0tally3rica

10 months ago

I was a really big Ashley fan for months. I saw her on YouTube shorts and fell down the rabbit hole. Chosen family became my favorite podcast and I saw Ashley live. I bought merch and posted about it and how excited I was to see her. She didn’t do anything at my show in New Brunswick NJ that was like the clips from Indy and I had a fun time. Shortly after her special came out , I noticed a shift in Ashley’s behavior. She went from acting truly humbled and grateful for blowing up to acting like a true diva. She started to express how upset and mad she was about the special not going viral. She would make a lot of “jokes” about how much free content she was giving us and how we basically owe her views on her special. I got a pretty bad taste in my mouth and had started turning off the chosen family podcast because her energy was throwing everything off. So yeah I’m not surprised this happened. IMO she’s bitter that she’s not bigger and taking it out on her audience and it all stems from her special not going viral. Like as if 2 hour comedy specials from mid sized comedians are always blowing up on YouTube Lmfao.

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@rosa-acicularis7368

10 months ago

Ashley's "comedy" is very mean-spirited and not very funny. I'm really sorry for the people who got that kind of treatment, it's humiliating. She shouldn't have gone as hard as she did

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@tomatoo2486

10 months ago

Interesting point about the crowd; I think handling a crowd is a lot like handling children, when a comedian gives attention to the loudest/ most disruptive person in the room, it teaches other fans that they can get attention by being annoying. (not saying that the people affected were doing anything on purpose, but it just creates this atmosphere I guess)

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@JH-kw8zy

10 months ago

The first few clips of hers i was impressed by her crowd work just because she was so fast with it. But quickly I realized that she's just mean spirited. She's quick with it because she does it SO MUCH. A bully if ever I've seen one.

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@Bendover-yd5hw

10 months ago

Hell yes, Harry's sponsored. I totally skipped the ad, but still. Good for him.

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@juuuu0

10 months ago

'Lin Manuel Miranda Sings' is comedy gold

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@camilabravorivera7511

10 months ago

okay wait. i actually saw her in person in this small bar in ny and i. did not find it funny. but i ran into her while she was talking to this group of girls outside and my friend went over to say hi. she singled me out cause i had a pillow with me that i had bought and i responded and everyone laughed. and she kept trying to joke about the pillow but no one would laugh and it was so fucking funny

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@Oliviaandtrina

10 months ago

It's so bizarre that in the apology she mentions that she's a suicide loss survivor. Personally it seems like just an excuse/justification. I am also a suicide loss survivor and I cannot imagine telling even 1 person to unalive themselves much less repeatedly telling multiple different people to do it. That wasn't a joke. That was real anger and vitriol.

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