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Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: Dec 18, 2019 ^^
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I'm near their age. I'm 81 years old. One thing that brings you happiness in old age that is hard for a young person to understand, is however my life has played out, I got the chance. By the time you're 81, you know dozens of people that died much younger, in their 30's and 40's and 50's from accidents, suicide, rare diseases, you name it. So just by being alive still, my heart fills with gratefulness that I got at least 81 years to experience life. When I was young, I would have thought that sounded pathetic, to be so easily made happy that waking up and having chats, or reading the paper, or walking outside would fill me with joy. When you're young, that's never enough. You feel like you need to leave your mark and make a big name for yourself. But a funny thing happens as you age. You live long enough to see some people you know become big shots, became rich or famous in some way, but most aren't made much happier by it, and some become lost when the notoriety fades. And then loving life for the small things starts to shift from feeling pathetic and small, to feeling wise and full. In fact, if life has taught me anything, it's that the reason we're here is to be present with the priviledge of each moment, as much as possible. Thinking about your goals tomorrow matter of course, and cherishing yesterday's memories. But more than anything, I think what has kept me healthy and happy is appreciating the priviledge of each moment. When you're a little kid, that's how you think. You appreciate recess at school, or going down a sliding board, or a walk through the woods. DON'T LOSE THAT. That, whatever that is, is the reason we're here. Being connected to small moments so strongly that they feel large. If you can do that well, you can enjoy being 80 as much as 40 or 20.
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I am 68. My mother in law died at 95. She told me that she regretted how much she time she spent on worrying. She often went to bed with migraines due to this. It changed me. There is so much I just let go of thanks to her wisdom. It took me years to figure out we can only control ourselves. Enjoy the moments.
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An elderly woman got onto me for not closing the blind on the plane we were on. So I closed it because she told me too. I thought she was kinda rude the way she said “ you need to close that blind”. I said yes mam sorry about that. Then as we continued in the flight, I was reading a book and she handed me a light that you can put on your book. So I realized then how sweet she was and I’m so glad I was respectful to her. Respect your elders always even if they come across as too stern or loud.
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I'm in my 70's and have a good life as a single widow. My 33 years of marriage, and numerous successful careers taught me so many life lessons. I wish I hadn't lived in so much fear, because it all worked out.
My only son is having the time of his life on the road with his wife and dogs in an RV....I would like to see him more, however, I'm glad to see he's happy.
I've been on my own for 20 years, happy and socializing with many friends, still wondering if a life partner will have a place in my life. More will be revealed, I'm enjoying the journey ; ~ π
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I’m listening to the 92yr old who paints, draws, has plenty social relationships, is learning French, values relationships and attributes his life to clean eating, plenty of exercise, etc. he seems like he blooms where he’s planted even tucked away in a retirement home. And the younger lady who lived on St Croix with the positive attitude.
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As a young kid I learnt from my grandma that I was lovable and was loved a lot by her, those memories and lasting impressions saved my young adult life. I grew up happy, positive and full of life just cos’ of the time I spent with my grandma and nothing else, I will remain eternally grateful for my beautiful and kind grandma, she saved me in a way I can’t describe 🙏
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@DerrikMirochnik
2 years ago
I just posted the second interview of this series! Go check it out and let me know what you think! Smash the like button if you enjoy it!! https://youtu.be/EDlR4tKDg2A ❤👍
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