Views : 107,094
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Feb 25, 2024 ^^
Rating : 4.958 (57/5,371 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-18T07:25:37.953255Z
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Here’s a brutally honest sign to: you clicked on this video. Now there are two reasons for that. One, you are just really anxious about your relationship, maybe you haven’t been treated right before and you are just looking for validation to make sure this one is the one. Or you know you’re in a toxic relationship and you want someone else to tell you because you know you should leave. Well if that second one is you, here’s your sign. It’s time to leave them behind and find someone better. You can do it!
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Ì would say a common sign is actual verbal abuse and controlling behaviour and constantly criticizing the other person, frequent anger, insults, demeaning the other person, frequently telling the other person they are incompetent or they cant do things, constant criticism, not wanting the other person to go out and do things, frequent ignoring or not listening, etc. Then refusing to acknowledge any of that.
Also a very clear sign is in the home. There will be an issue freqently around Cleanliness. The person will either be a sloth or neat freak or combination to suit. It can manifest many ways, but often often involves them bringing those around them to task (very easy way to abuse others and come up with whatever complaints they like). Basically it's a convenient way for them to be a frequent Tyrant and abuser in the home.
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My first relationship I did not realise was abusive until I got out of it. The reflections I underwent during therapy and being alone hit me hard that all those signs were true. I was blinded by what I thought was love because that was all I wanted. The most heartbreaking thing for me was I wish I knew back then how to stand up to him during the times I felt sad or terrified. I am in a much better place right now but there are days I look back at that person and wished I could help her. I hope anyone who reads this who has ever been in this similar situation, know you are not alone. There are good people out there who will listen and be willing to help.
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This video is everything i needed to hear. I knew everything the girl i was dating have done all these things but i always thought she did all these things unintentionally. I also have ADHD which made me fall in love with her intensely and it is much harder to leave her. She fake promised me things like she can't leave me at all even if she wanted and now she is withholding love. I am grateful for the friends who recognised this behaviour and told me to leave her. I started my ADHD meds again and now i am planning to leave her.
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@Psych2go
2 months ago
If you suspect you're in an unhealthy relationship, remember that support is available. Don't hesitate to reach out for help. Please consider sharing this video message
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