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Happy Healing (:
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Never announce that you’re leaving.
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I feel so confused with my parents, sometimes they are nice sometimes they are mean. Everyone always makes me feel so guilty, and worthless and that I need to pay back everything that they have ever done for me.
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To everybody else going through this unbelievably scary situation: we can do this, just take it one step at a time <3
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My new years resolution is to get away from my family
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I just left my toxic moms house yesterday and am nervous about my next chapter. I won’t go back. I can’t. Thank u for this video🤍
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The thing that messed me up more than the narcissistic behaviour was the constant denial that it even existed/ that they ever did anything wrong.
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Financial and educational abuse is no joke, I wish more government services were around to help.
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My parents don’t want me to get a job or gain too much independence. And it takes a toll on me mentally. I can’t even get a job to start the steps of financial stability.
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I'm literally about to cry from watching this. My parents' narcissism drove me to clinical depression and I'm currently still living with them but I'm definitely leaving as soon as I get my degree certificate in a couple of weeks. I have a little sister I care about a lot and I hope I can make enough money in time to have her live with me and help her get on her feet when the time comes. Thank you so much for this. It means a lot!
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We’re glad that you mentioned the connection between narcissistic abuse and materialism / luxury. We used to have panic attacks over something as simple as NOT having the right purse for the new season. Our mother used our autistic masking as a weapon to make us feel deep shame about our appearance for many years. So much so that it completely sabotaged our finances.
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As mentioned before, living at home pass the age of 25 causes emotional and psychological damage according to some psychologist. Adult children need to move out early to sustain their maturity.
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In the meantime keep your share of chores done, and have little presence in the house. I've resulted to being at the park or at a coffee shop. If you have a job offer extra hours or come in early. If you go to school be there from the moment you wake up to the moment it gets dark.
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I actually got kicked out and was homeless for a while but now I’m working a decent paying job and live in a 1 bedroom apartment by myself really focusing on healing
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(Paraphrased) "You don't need all this stuff, you need peace of mind." That's so true. Thank you.
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The relief in your voice gives me relief. I'm finally moving out.. I hope... No i am
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I’m 19 and my mom always puts pressure on me. Sometimes she says she wants me to become more independent, but then when I say I want to do that she says I’m immature for trying.
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my mom is constantly going from trying to manipulate me to stay longer with crying about how im going to abandon her and shaming me so much to break down my self esteem(and getting mad if i dont agree with her that im a mess), while simultaneously threatening to kick me out anytime im not going above and beyond in every way to assist her 24/7, or when i have an opinion or try to set boundaries as an adult, i get a “YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL I PAY FOR THIS HOUSE AND YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY YOU ARE PROVIDED FOR AND WE DONT PHYSICALLY ABUSE YOU LIKE MY PARENTS DID” it’s exhausting ☹️ im moving out soon after i start my nursing job but i know shes just gonna get more and more emotionally abusive until then and its just so hard to even approach but im tired of carrying around so much shame for things i havent done and im done letting my parents convince me im not capable
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I manifest being financially stable and moving out this toxicness.
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Thx. Wanna hear something scary? I moved out at 24 by leaving the country and working abroad (but kept in touch with my narcissistic parents). When I was 34 I went NC with them. It was the best decision ever. However, the terrible guilt and trauma bond both kicked in and I ended up going back to my country from abroad straight to my parents' home and it was the worst decision. Now I'm looking for a job while trying to keep my mental health while dealing with these people. Remember guys that trauma bonds are real and if you don't heal them you're gonna go back to this dysfunction (either back with your parents or with a toxic partner).
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@Itshillaryyyy
4 years ago
4:15 that part ...I need to move asap!
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