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Emily Ratajkowski is an author, model, actor, entrepreneur, and host of the podcast High Low with EmRata. She opens up to Eileen about processing her need for validation and confronting her own contradictions. She also touches on the end of her marriage, what it means to perpetuate toxic beauty standards, and how she uplifts other women and femme-presenting people.
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Date of upload: Mar 17, 2023 ^^
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0:22: 📚 Emily Ratajkowski discusses her career, the criticism she faces for being a sexy woman, and how her views on femininity and sexuality have evolved.
6:41: 😔 The speaker reflects on the responsibility of perpetuating harmful stereotypes and the personal and systemic factors that contribute to it.
14:04: 📚 The speaker discusses her experiences with insecurity and body image as a model and how social media has exacerbated these issues.
20:42: 👥 The speaker discusses the addiction to external validation and how it affects relationships.
28:04: 😅 The speaker discusses their preference for being dominant or submissive in relationships and their attraction to masculinity, but also the difficulty of finding someone who is both caring and interesting.
34:48: 💔 The speaker discusses her decision to end her marriage, the speculation of infidelity, and the challenges of navigating a breakup as a single mother.
41:41: 👥 The speaker discusses their transition from seeking validation from others to finding purpose in relationships and personal growth, acknowledging their polarizing nature and the impact of haters on their self-esteem.
49:08: 😕 The speaker discusses the pressure to be perfect and the impact of social media on self-image.
55:44: 🎙 The speaker discusses the importance of giving a platform to marginalized voices and exploring difficult topics on her podcast.
1:02:40: 📷 The speaker discusses the pressure to conform to unrealistic beauty standards and the impact of posting images of oneself online.
1:09:43: 💁 The discussion revolves around the acceptance and normalization of getting cosmetic procedures done, particularly among younger generations.
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I really appreciate the host pushing Emily to answer the very important question of "do you believe you're adding to the oppressive and damaging female beauty standards".. because yes, she absolutely is. I also appreciate Emily's point that traditionally beautiful, skinny women should not feel shame about their body, which is not what anyones asking for. I agree with the suggestion the host gives about Emily posting more "everyday" photos where she's not hyper-flexed, hyper-posed, and not trying to be hot but rather just being a human and letting her body relax and just be. I think Jameela Jamil is a great example of this. She is, by all beauty standards, hot and she posts pictures of herself looking hot because we love a girly feeling herself, but she also posts moments of insecurity where she's not posing and trying to make her body look desirable or trying to make her body look like anything, but rather is just letting her body be. Emily gets the bad rap of being just "the hot girl", which is sexist and reductive, but she also only posts/shares her body/face when she's looking hot. I really do like so many of the conversations Emily has opened up about and appreciate her perspective, but I can't help but feel like she has a lot of definitive and strong arguments and opinions around issues where someone else is the "perpetrator" but when she's in the hot seat and is being held accountable for the role she plays in promoting unrealistic beauty standards and playing to the male gaze, she gets quiet and is like.. well I'm just one person, I can't change anything. I don't know.. I feel conflicted.
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Emily didn't understand when Eileen talked about plastic surgery. The issue, Emily, is not about explaining things to people, it's not about privacy, as she quoted. It's about this mania that you famous people have to have plastic surgery and vehemently deny it, while posting pictures being impeccable and, at the same time, wanting to show that you are a "clean girl" aesthetic. There are no problems with having cosmetic surgeries, the problem is doing it and denying it to millions of followers and fans, making people think that that symmetrical face really exists, that that perfect mouth exists, that the face with the right cheekbones is real. Some celebrities are super open about their procedures (such as Anitta, Chrissy Teigen, Priyanka Chopra, Courteney Cox, etc.) and this is not about privacy, it's about not deceiving followers and fans, because perfection doesn't exist, unless you really go to an operating room.
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Loved the questions/dialogue/rawness of this.
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I like Emily as a person, but that question was so on point. I do believe that she's been perpetuating the very thing that she supposedly is against, and the people who suffer are generally the women who aren't privileged and protected like herself.
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I think Eileen is the one host I have seen in a VERY long time (if ever) that asked the questions that the audience wanted asked and didn’t sugar coat questions. This made me subscribe to this podcast, I’m impressed. Please do not change your direction, Eileen.
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I really, really enjoyed this conversation...love Emily❤
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Wow I am so impressed by her wisdom and strength. I can totally relate.
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Really enjoyed hearing Emily’s thoughts on the Chloe episode in retrospect. That must have been a complicated thing to approach but I agree that she did the best job she could.
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I think women like to be worshiped and adored for how they look and I think they should be. I think slut shaming comes into play when men can’t have those women or women get jealous. I don’t think it’s always about money. I think women like to be looked at and I don’t think that’s a bad thing. I think it’s just understanding how we look at women should be with admiration and appreciation rather than possession or projecting our own self judgement or insecurities.
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Amazing conversation. Lots I relate too and lots of concepts that click into place.
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Good job Bellabee. I liked the little hint you gave at 29:23. Thanks babe.
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Really like this podcast but find Emily very surface level, she uses buzzwords and the 'correct' language but there is something disconnected with her. It seems impossible to relate to her even when talking about trauma and relatable problems most women have experienced. Its the same on her podcast, the conversation seems vapid even though the subject matter feels like it should be deep and hard hitting.
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She has more power than she realizes and blaming the system is lazy. Posting the way she does “feels good” because she still earns money from the inherent privilege that she has. When she gets older and the looks fade, her perspective will shift. I do appreciate the empathy and consideration she has for others. We are all growing and learning to be more grateful. She’s on her way.
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Really appreciate Emily and how she thinks. But it almost feels like she’s biting the hand that feeds her. Her insta is enough proof on how she continues to commoditise her body. Also, blaming the system for her choices or the choices of women is not the best message? Ultimately it does come down to choices and I know that women don’t have many sometimes but it does come down to personal responsibility and preference.
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eileen asking all the RIGHT questions >>> love this
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I love this conversation. Emrata is amazing! 🌹
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I loved the interviewers softness
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I may be wrong, but it feels like she tries to over-explain her reasons for posting what she does and I think it is why people are frustrated. It's ok to feel comfortable in your body and wanting to show it off, it doesn't always have to have a message, you can simply enjoy it. I kind of wish she would just say that. I see the disconnect that other people refer to. There are a lot of women on the internet who post their pics and it's a much more relaxed vibe. Her "men are trash" comment really threw me, sigh...we'll never make progress this way.
Really love these questions and this interview to ask all the hard questions! Kind of sick of all the other the pre-rehearsed conversations to make someone look better.
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@Irissi-et3gn
8 months ago
Saying "the world wouldn't be any different if I didn't post my naked pics, so I will not acknowledge the responsibility and ripple effect my massive platform has on the culture, and alter the way I post" is just like Jeff Bezos saying the world isn't going to stop abusing workers if he does, so he might as well keep doing it too. She and her refusal to show anything but perfection (never a single bad day, never a bad angle, she admits) to her tens of millions of followers for over 10 years now is a big reason why the culture is the way it is. The problem was never that she was sexy, nor that she flaunted it -- but the extent to which she did, only to then blame the system, totally decredibilizes her.
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