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Genre: Education
Date of upload: Apr 5, 2022 ^^
Rating : 4.727 (4,742/64,829 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-29T23:43:04.610421Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
"You think of yourselves as so insignificant that you would need a God or devil or a hell to cause eternal torment. Like you're not doing it already. If you think you can't put demons in someone's mind you're wrong"
This one hit me hard and is gonna be my new favorite quote. I actually do like Mara.
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I like how Mara isnt here to scare us. I mean: yes, she is scary, but from the very first moment you can see that shes here because she wants us to meet her, to get to know her. She doesnt want to scare us away. And I love the Makeup, I wish I could do something like this, sheĀ“s very talented!
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"No God put me here, humans put me here" if that doesn't sum up my trauma all in one statement i don't know what ever will. I dont have DID but I can 1000% relate to that statement with my own experiences and past trauma and it also kinda helps to put into perspective for some people on what causes DID and alters to form, not necessarily people in general but people and their actions to others/the host
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I love how Sera can actually tell when Kya is around .. and when she is needed. Those animals and their 6th senses. My cat can tell when I am depressed and though heās not cuddly.. he will come to me and jump to my lap or lay beside me and allow me to stroke him .. itās amazing how intelligent animals are .. we are blessee
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āNo god put me here. Humans put me here.ā - Mara
That really resonated with me. Thatās a sadly relatable quote.
Edit: To be clear, Iām not a system, Iām just a single person. But still, that quote really resonated. I canāt even imagine how much it must resonate for those with DID, and I wonāt pretend to. Wishing love to anybody whoās struggling, system or otherwise.
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@gracecadet3244
2 years ago
"I'll be good" and "I didn't even say anything" hit me so hard..... This is gonna be a bit of a long story and several alters are huddling toward the front, so sorry if it doesn't all make as much sense as I'd like. But anyway, my longest running co-host / internal partner has said things like this many times over the years, and it breaks my heart. She was our main protector for a long time but also VERY much a persecutor (destructive to the body, destructive and controlling thought patterns, strict gag orders, relationship sabotage, etc etc etc), and so we as a system felt often times that we had every right to build up stigma and prejudice and boundaries against her because of all the pain and turmoil she's caused over the years. But as we've gotten older, gone through more therapy/self-education/self-reflection, and grown leaps and bounds in system communication, I understand in hindsight that there have been times where she was trying desperately to make amends and just have a place in the system without being shunned, mistrusted, or even sometimes mistreated by other headmates. It just makes me so sad for these very misunderstood alters. Of course keeping yourself and your system as safe as possible is important and trust issues can tend to run rampant among people with lots of trauma, but let's not ever forget that ultimately everyone is capable of growth, change, and redemption. I love how Kya brought it back around in the end to make sure Mara knew she was appreciated and welcome, and even complimented her creative makeup job even though it's not personally their kind of thing and was unnerving. Baby steps like these are so important. To any persecutor or past-persecutor trying to make things right and find more common ground with your systems, we (Grace and Lilly) see you and care about you, and we acknowledge that just because your actions and intentions are complicated or born of unhealthy thought patterns or coping skills doesn't mean they're always purposefully malicious. You were made for a reason, and that is valid. No matter what role it was or how unpalatable for others, your body's brain believed that having you be part of the team was necessary, so it is. But it also doesn't have to stay the same forever. Have patience and humility with yourself and your system as roles and relationships change, keep communication open as much as possible, and just do the best with what you've got each day. One day hopefully you'll look up and realize you're not the "bad guy" anymore, you're just another valid and valued part of your system. š Sorry this turned into a TedTalk lol, but thanks for reading if you did, and I hope maybe it helps some people š
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