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Top Comments of this video!! :3
it’s always “Say sorry”
but never “I’m sorry”
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"I wish I never had kids"
Me: "I wish you never had me too"
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My dad was abused as a kid, he was hit, shouted at and abandoned, but instead of continuing the horrible cycle gave me the best childhood he possibly could and he succeeded, I had an absolutely amazing childhood, I couldn't have asked for a better dad
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My parents after watching this: "I'm gonna pretend I didn't see that"
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cheese
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Signs you have horrible,strict or abusive parents.
-feeling the need to hide everything
-feeling scared to tell your parents things
-they compare you
-they hit you
-they always say “but I love you❤”
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Sometimes I tell myself, “It’s okay, Reem. Don’t consider yourself weak. Our parents were raised in the same way, and they can managed to overcome this challenging period.” But NO, it’s undeniable that they passed down their mental health issues to us and still struggled with these issues themselves in their lifetimes. My dad, whom I have strong negative feelings towards, exhibits all eight toxic traits mentioned in the video. Thank you for shedding light on these traits and giving me another reason to explain why don’t talk with him 5 years ago till now.
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lots of people are not fit to be parents
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when ur parents did all of these check
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"All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children"
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I had emotional, physical, sexual, mental and verbal abuse. No kid needs to go through that. I finally (at 60 years old) went to a rohun therapist who brought me back through all the abuse and helped me to be free of the trauma. My advice is don't wait as long as I did because the trauma affects health. My Dr. kept telling me I needed therapy but didn't believe him. He was right. My health and mind has been amazing since. Thank you for bringing up the subject so kids and adults don't think it was their fault. It is toxic parents.I don't even think about what I went through and never talk about it either and just say my childhood wasn't the best but it made me what I am today.
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I don’t even feel safe crying in front of my parents.
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“You talk too much. Learn how to shut your mouth.”
“You're always so quiet. Why don't you try to talk more?”
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Thanks. I watch these to figure out if I still have any toxic traits to fix. My mom broke some of these cycles because of her mom. Just as I'm breaking the rest for my children. I love that people are speaking out about this stuff.
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Threatening abandonment, Comparing to other people, and threatening wishes was a part of my late childhood.
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Every child says “I’m sorry”
But, I never hear the parents say “I’m sorry”
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that moment when you realize you can't wait til you reach class rather than sit in the car with them.
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I’m in a Twelve Step Program due to my growing up in a dysfunctional home-middle child, unwanted, unloved, yet my sisters were loved. Keep spreading the word that what looks good on the outside hides what happens behind closed doors! Thank you
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@LeighCope-vw4yx
8 months ago
Wow, this hit home for me. I was also verbally abused as a child and adult. My mother always said she wished she never had children. She passed last year, and even at the end, I asked her if she regretted having us 4 kids, her response, yes. I was told I was stupid, fat(ended up being anorexic)in high school, and stopped having my monthly cycle. I didn't have a winter coat, walked to school every day, and got pneumonia. I was told I was going to hell.I could write a book.. maybe that's why I never had children, afraid I would be like her. I'm 61 years old. You never forget those words....
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