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Genre: Music
Date of upload: Jun 23, 2018 ^^
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i see a lot of kids struggling in the comments so i just wanna voice my support for you guys.
i'm barely an adult but if you're going through a tough time, remember that you deserve to be heard, your pain deserves to be taken seriously, and your struggles are real. if you have daddy/mommy issues, i understand how absolutely painful and devastating that can be
remember that your parents had the responsibility to care for you, love you and nurture you. and if you never received that (which i see plenty of you haven't), you have every right to feel angry, dismayed and betrayed. but please, always remind yourself that you are no less a person for having parents that never stood by you, that is on *them*, not you. you aren't broken for the actions of the people who had the responsibility to care for you.
i know you guys hear this a lot but things do get better in the future. not because the pain goes away, or because things magically turn around, but because with gradual self-reflection and the support of loved ones, friends and found family, you will pick yourself up and walk towards a healthy future that your parents never helped you achieve. things will be a bit harder, especially when you've been dealt a garbage hand, but there are people out there who do want to love you and take care of you, and give you the appreciation and attention you never received. please seek out company or professional help when you need it. we don't exist in isolation like our parents might want to make us believe. we do need people, so don't be afraid to ask for help, and don't be afraid to learn to love again.
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So uhm this is my story.
My parents had been arguing every single day about basically anything, I was 8-10 at the time. Eventually my mother divorced my father because he didnt take our family serious and he was starting to take drugs. When I was 12 my mother married another man who already had 2 children and she barely gave me any attention and I never felt loved by her ever since. On the other hand, my father was living with his friends doing drugs and stuff like that. I lived with my grandma and I only saw him because he had to bring me to school and pick me up again. At 14, my father was really mad at me because the said i was the reason my biological mother divorced him and he abused me emotionally. Months later he started seeing me less and he went out with a lot of friends almost everynight. He was a drug-addict ever since the divorce, and he drug-overdosed and died.
Now I am 15 and adopted by my two amazing parents who I love.
I am still traumatized by my past but im healing.
I hope you guys arent afraid to be the person you need to be. I hope you find the right people around you :)
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@gurlbye-9457
3 years ago
I can't be the only one that wastes their childhood by thinking about the future. I always spend hours in my room thinking about whether I should start my own business or if I'll be homeless when im older. It's unhealthy.
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