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Today Stephan Speaks and Lewis touch on the transformative power of healing, the strength found in showing vulnerability, and the secret sauce to keeping connections alive and thriving over time. Stephan opens up about the journey of mending from past wounds as a gateway to more joyful and satisfying partnerships ahead. He draws a clear line between the kind of disagreements that foster growth and the arguments that tear us apart, reminding us that respect is the way through any rough patch.
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00:00:00 - Intro
00:02:00 - Overcoming Influences to Improve Attraction
00:03:50 - Meeting Needs in Relationships
00:05:44 - Men's Struggle with Monogamy
00:07:54 - The correlation between ambition and high sexual energy
00:10:07 - Open Relationships and Emotional Needs
00:12:19 - The Three Most Important Things Men Need in a Relationship
00:14:18 - The Importance of Love, Security, and Stimulation for Women
00:16:31 - Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy
00:18:43 - Loving in Your Masculine
00:20:47 - Recognizing the One
00:22:49 - Intuition vs. Fear in Relationships
00:24:59 - Building a Relationship without Healing
00:26:58 - Healing and Sexual Interactions
00:29:00 - The Healing Process
00:30:54 - Recognizing Healing and Vulnerability
00:32:51 - The Power of Positive Language
00:34:48 - Healing and Finding a True Connection
00:36:50 - Addressing Flaws in Relationships
00:38:56 - The Dangers of Unhealthy Arguing
00:40:56 - Effective Communication Strategies
00:42:58 - The Importance of Healing and Doing the Work
00:44:54 - Making the "Who Hurt Me" List
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Well, King, relationships can be complex, and there are many factors that can contribute to their success or failure. It's important to remember that statistics can vary and every relationship is unique. However, some common reasons why relationships may face challenges in the first years include lack of communication, incompatible values or goals, unresolved conflicts, and unrealistic expectations. Building a strong foundation of trust, understanding, and open communication can greatly increase the chances of a relationship thriving. It's also important to remember that relationships require effort and commitment from both partners. By working together and addressing issues as they arise, couples can increase their chances of long-term success. 😊🌟
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I love that. "Do I want to be heard? Or Do I want it to be received?"
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It feels good to have done the work and healed... now, I can meet my man and just grow creating and elevating together. It's time to have some fun, adventure, joy, enjoy creating good memories ❤
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I completely disagree with “love is instant” in fact I’ve discovered the exact opposite. My current relationship has been this extraordinary journey of pealing back the layers and getting to know each other. Each layer that my partner and I pull back with each other, I find myself falling more in love. But this was not immediate, it took quite a long time in todays standards but it was the best slow burn that I’ve never experienced. People are way too quick to let someone go because they don’t have immediate chemistry with them and I say many are missing out on the possibility of building a true long lasting incredibly deep connection with someone.
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That feeling of safety = SO important and has a massive impact and onflow effect - you get that, the rest comes easily. It's often not talked about, and a lot of conversations are relegated to buying things for a person and looking a certain way - so thank you Stephan and Lewis for touching on the 'feeling safe' aspect. Not having to have your guard up all the time, is a gift to receive the experience.
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In order for relationships to thrive, it is extremely important to let things go and not focusing on the small mistakes or silly differences.
Waiting for you guys and thank you!
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its energetically attractive listening you two males speak about betterment and love. ❤
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"Your spirit recognizing it's match" 🔥🔥🔥💯
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Woah! At the 20 min mark. 🔥 I've said for years that I can tell within minutes if there is a possible relationship! Some have said I should 'give it time' but for me, it is or it isn't! Thank you! ❤
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I think being single would be the best. It's mostly pleasing, man, they are most important
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Love, Security and Trust - the most fundamental elements in a happy relationship for a woman. Trust is more important than being entertained. Without trust a woman will not be happy in a relationship.
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Great video! 🧡 To reference the point about intuition, as an international dating and a relationship coach myself, I absolutely agree that healing and addressing our wounds from past hurts can help the connection to our intuition.
Equally, what helps my coaching clients to tap into their intuition is to bring it back to the body 🙌🏽
What this looks like is learning how to regulate our nervous system. This can help manage our cortisol levels.
Here's what you can do:
🌷Mindfulness practices such as deep breathing, meditation, prayer, exercise, yoga etc.
🌷Eating healthily through managing your diet and nutrition well.
🌷 Getting enough rest and sleep.
🌷 Having a supportive network of people can help with the release of oxytocin. Oxytocin increases trust, regulates stress, facilitates emotion recognition, increases prosocial behaviour, and attenuates loneliness.
We tend to underestimate the power of taking care of our bodies to deepen our level of clarity and intuition 🌷💫
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Stephen is the best relationship coach there is.
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such a great interviewer for SS. Lewis, you are a great bouncer with S & bring out such great points and angles
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I truly will never understand why sex is such a deal breaker for men, most people go through phases where they have sex daily to twice a month. Also if you’re with someone for 10, 30, 50 years then sex will get boring af at times, be reaaaaal 😂
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Such an amazing conversation. Thank you so much. I am precisely overcoming a breakup where she was healing trauma from her past relationship and I was doing my best to help but she ended up sabotaging herself into believing that I was going to change and become someone similar to her previous partner.
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I needed this so bad ❤thank you
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I believe in the spirit knowing, that you spoke of. That’s y I’m single. I’m super in tune with my faith haven’t met that match again since my ex hubby.
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1000% Facts ❤💯
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@NZ919.
2 months ago
People just don’t want to be responsible & take any accountability for their actions. Inner growth is for the courageous x
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