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What is love anyway? I am learning to love myself in my 30's. What I learned about love is all wrong. I don't think I love myself. I am at the beginning of my self love journey. learning to love myself in real time. What is love, anyway? I'm using 1 Corinthians 13 love scripture, the dictionary, and even Bell Hooks' All About Love as a starting point to figure out how to love myself. Let's journey together.

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00:00 self love
02:00 what I learned about love.
06:41 I never knew that I could love myself.
08:18 what is love?
12:46 The Love Scripture
17:07 All About Love
19:42 love in all the wrong places
22:25 excerpts from Bell Hooks
25:00 what is love?

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@ellenatran4674

2 months ago

"Love has always been a thing I've been auditioning for...it didn't even occur to me that I can love myself." Mm, I felt that.

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@tracya.5908

2 months ago

I love this quote also from bell hooks. It's a nice, concrete definition of what love is. I'm going to use this as a guideline to know whether I'm loving myself. “Love is a combination of care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust.”

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@Mara.Isabelle

3 months ago

I haven’t watched this yet but Alecia you’re honestly amazing. I have been on my healing journey for a few years & this the last half of last year I decided I needed to rest, be gentle & give up the struggle life because it was getting me nowhere. since september I have grown so much. I came across your videos & they have helped me A LOT!! you are so gentle, loving & caring & I aspire to have your calm nature. you have helped me & inspired me as someone who was born & raised in to trauma & deciding that it stops with me. I turn 30 this year & I told the universe that if my life is the same then I’m going to end it. life being life of course has been throwing traumatic events at me since the year started but I no longer have the energy to stress about what I can’t control. anyways thank you for your life.

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@UniquelyHerz

3 months ago

Self love is the best love, no one can love you better than you can love yourself!

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@ItsLittleSiren

2 months ago

Yessss! I'm so ready for THAT conversation! MANY people have loved me before I loved myself, even when I was looking for love in all the wrong places. A separate conversation for another day 😊

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@afrobutterfly

3 months ago

30s are freeing

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@LetsTalkAboutItWithMara

2 months ago

I’m so happy you mentioned the scripture, because you have a lot of people who operated out of ego and not love

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@shanisays9621

3 months ago

I’m on this same journey at 34. I learned recently that I talk about self-love but I’m still on the old operating system, that did not love myself. I’m going to talk about that today on my podcast. Thank you for the guidance as I go on this journey to true self-love. It’s long overdue.

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@Aladyy

2 months ago

This is on time. Im currently grieving from deciding to cut my "family" off. They bread crumb me and talk about me in my face. Only God knows the extent of whats said in my absence 😢 but when I return the energy guess who's the victim? It hurt so much and it's scary in the world we live in to not even be able to count on those we're related to. But they got me so fkked up forreal. Great video

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@tgsg858

1 month ago

This is so relatable. I think this is the story of many black women.

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@DiannaT

2 months ago

Alecia, I really resonate with this message of love from you. I truly didn't see myself as attractive or special or loveable until my 30's and since then, I've learned so much about why I felt and thought about myself the way I did. Keep bringing out the things we need to talk about

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@jaycarp88

2 months ago

Thank you, Alecia, for sharing. As a male, I’m learning that I am part logical, practical, and emotional. For me, all three are required for me to be authentically me…always focusing my attention outwardly to others but never focusing inwardly to tend to my emotional needs…lack of self love. Keep inspiring! Godspeed.

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@ambry1864

2 months ago

You touched on so many things, that wow.. def need a moment and hug 🫂 💔 love to me is about consideration, celebration, gentleness, protection, nourishment and reliability/consistency.. i wonder how you all perceive love from god/source/universe if bad things happened to you/the world…it Immediately takes away the protective aspect of love, and a concept i struggle with understanding…esp from a being/thing that is all knowing… it makes me lean more into the ideology of we are all the universe experiencing itself, rather than a being overseeing Anyway though, slient watcher, love your content and you sharing this journey☀️☀️☀️❤️❤️❤️❤️☀️☀️so much love💕

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@handdeeabroad

2 months ago

Thank you for helping me question my assumptions. My definition of love is evolving over time, I'm 50...

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@malaikalovee

2 months ago

I’m 24 & I swear you gotta be my soul sister. I’ve never heard anyone outside of myself think & feel the way I do ! Not only is this reassuring but it’s affirming of my soul.

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@FullyLovingYourself

2 months ago

I’m listening to this video and had to come look at the phone and see if it was ME on the screen 😩🤣 cause the way all of this HIT!!!

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@marilynb8704

2 months ago

Hey hey Love ❤

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@abimbolaiyun8575

1 month ago

Thank you A. I resonate with the part around God and love.

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@rosina2131

2 months ago

Your skin is amazing, glowing hunty ❤

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@Thentherewasbim

2 months ago

I have also understood my desire to be married was my quest to be worthy, loved and validated. In my thirties, as I prioritised loving the whole of me, my desire to marry dissipated.

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