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Genre: Entertainment
Date of upload: Feb 12, 2024 ^^
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RYD date created : 2024-07-26T19:27:21.834218Z
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I went on a date with a guy who legit looked like he should be on the cover of a vampire romance novel. He was gorgeous. He was also very nice. But we had nothing in common. This wasn't his fault but it did make the date pretty akward. I told him at the end of the date that we weren't compatible. He didn't speak to me for a while after.
However, it's been almost 20 years, and we still keep in touch despite moving to different states. We became really good friends. He's still gorgeous and still sweet.
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Also must say, some of us with childhood trauma really struggle to NOT be so nice, to not people please. It's called "fawning," meaning to try to please people so they won't hurt you, and it's basically a survival tactic you learn when you are young to keep you safe. It's part of the "fight or flight" which psychologists now call "fight, flight, freeze, or fawn"
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Most HILARIOUS quote in this video is at 12:35 "I like staying the night at other peoples' places because my room is always messy and I like to sleep in a clean room." đ
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One of my worst dates: i was 27, single, and learned about Bumble. I heard it was more "wholesome" than the other dating apps out there, so i thought id give it a try.Well, my first match (m/30) was really cute, worked in the biology field, rock climbed, and had a love for animals. We talked for a few weeks and then decided to meet up at a German beer house and restaurant. Ive been rusty at the dating thing, so i wore my cutest clothes and wore light makeup and light perfume, and when I showed up, he just seemed so mad that he was meeting with me. His face had a permanent scowl (not rbf but like purposely that way) didnt seem interested in talking much either. I decided to break the silence and asked him how long he had been rock climbing for. He said 5 years or so and then asked me the same question. I just started rock climbing a week or two before we matched, so I was still pretty new at it. I enthusiastically asked him if he'd like to see the video of my first time reaching the top of a v1 (that's like the second level in bouldering (ropeless rock climbing thats closer to the ground), he nodded and as I show him my newby climb, he proceeded to rip me to shreds saying my form was terrible and that I should quit while I was ahead especially since im a "bigger girl". (The whole time i was climbing, i had a coach/ friend walking me through it). Anyway, i told him he was being a jerk, he scoffed and said i should consider a different hobby that's for softer bodies, which really hurt cause climbing is how i got motivated to lose weight. The food came, i took two bites and left without a word.
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14:15 she has a very understanding reason to not allow him over. The fact he got mad for her not wanting him in her apartment right away makes a lot of sense. Good for her.
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Acting nice when youâre scared theyâll hurt you, is the superior move if that is what your brain is telling you. Your brain calculated that this is possibly a bad person and you donât have the physical strength/ability to defend yourself or get away in that moment. Trust your gut ladies.
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Men in America have guns, though. Several years after a few incidents where being nice was the only reason I lived, I took a self-defense class and one of the first things the instructor told us was "Compliance is a form of self-defense. If you feel like there's no other way to defend yourself, and your life is at stake, there is no shame in choosing to live."
After that class I sat in my car and cried. I had never felt so validated, and haven't been again since, but I think we all need to be told that we can choose to live no matter how we do it.
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I went on a tinder date with this guy at Buffalo Wild Wings and at the end of the date (itâs was great we had good laughs whatever) he looks at me and goes âwould it be cool if like we just became friends? You seem more like a little sister than a potential gfâ and I was like â⌠yeah thatâs not a problem I was getting the same kinda vibeâ đ
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My worst first date: I drove 40 minutes to meet him at his local watering hole. I arrived, and he was seated at the bar, in full conversation with everyone there. There wasnât a stool next to him, and he made no offer no move to a table/booth. I had to find a stool, drag it over, and sit partway behind him (there wasnât room for a stool, either). During our conversation, I learned that heâs homeless and currently couch-surfing at his nephewâs apartment. There was no second date. If this were to happen now, I would have left when there was nowhere to sit.
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The not having a car thing isnât necessarily a red flag depending on where you live. Plenty of people in large cities especially today donât have a car, but you donât ask the other person to pick you up. You tell them youâll meet them there or tell her that youâll be there to pick her up in a taxi or Uber.
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@gigi64tx7
5 months ago
I went out with a guy I wasnât at all interested in because he asked me out 2 weeks in advance and he had put so much effort into planning it that I felt too guilty to say no. I wanted to cancel so bad but he was so excited about it that I thought Iâll just go and heâll realize that we just donât click. 35 years, 4 kids, 5 grandkids and 2 great grandkids later and I still canât ghost this dude.
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