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Genre: Howto & Style
Date of upload: Mar 20, 2024 ^^
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I've heard women say "just because i smile at you doesn't mean it is an invitation", and other women say "i gave him a hint, i smiled at him, but he didn't do anything". I suppose we are suppose to be able to deduce which smiles are invitations, and which smiles are somehow not an invitation at all.
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I remember in college there was a girl in my friend group that came up to me one day and asked me why I never tried to do anything with her. I responded in a puzzled look and said I didn’t know you were interested in me.
She responded by saying she gave me all these hints when we were at this party a few weeks ago. I told her that I’m not looking for buried treasure. Hints and riddles don’t work. If she was interested she should have said something.
Even if she did I doubt I would have tried anything with her. She was kind of crazy. But still hints don’t really work. Just tell us.
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What I’ve found frustrating through conversations with women, friends and exes, is how terrified they are of asking a man out because of potential rejection. Yet they can’t understand that guys are just as afraid of rejection and so often have very little to go on, such as “hints”. Women’s success rate if they asked out men would be 90 percent plus whereas a guy’s is closer to 10 percent.
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Speaking as a paramedic, the medical example hit the nail on the head. Always be honest and direct with your healthcare providers. Moving on, "I can't read your mind and you can't read mine," was something I started telling my wife at the very early stages of our relationship. It's great advice for anyone in any stage of a relationship. Thanks for highlighting this issue.
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under fire from enemy machine guns "Boy, it sure would be nice if someone could take out those gunners, don't you think? What are your thoughts? Jefferson, you're a good soldier, maybe you could think about seeing if there's something you could do about that? I mean, you shouldn't have to do it alone, though. Maybe a couple of other soldiers could perhaps join you? I don't know. What do you want to do?"
Yeah, I have no idea why men don't deal in hints. Truly mysterious.
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There are women that will say it's "creepy and weird" if a guy even looks at them and yet at the same time guys are generally expected to initiate just about everything from the first conversation to physical intimacy in the dating process. Even post me too. And they say dating is supposed to be "fun".
In reality it feels like trying to traverse a minefield that's covered in eggshells and laser traps just to get to the job interview portion so that they can see if you're "good enough".
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Many women seem to imagine that they CAN read your thoughts.
Early in our relationship, with my now-wife, many times when there was friction it frequently wasn't about anything I said or did, but what she believed I was thinking. And so many times it wasn't even close to being true.
It's been 21 years and things have gotten a lot better, but it was maddening to clash over things that didn't even happen.
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This is CORRECT! As I get older I'm more literal. If people say things they don't mean, I'll act on that. Then when it backfires, I'm like, hey, that's what you said to do. I don't have time to spoon-feed people. LONG AGO there was this girl I had as a friend. Never thought I had a chance and didn't want to ruin the friendship and I was shy so I never did anything. YEARS LATER when it was too late, she told me she felt the same and she was dropping many hints. HINTS!!!! I NEVER saw anything close to HINTS about being together. If she would have came out and said how she felt, we would have been together. HINTS!!!!!!!!!!
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Let’s just call this what it is. The “hint” is just a litmus test of sorts. A purposely vague and veiled concept to test and see if you are willing to subject yourself to her mercy and control. If you take the hint you are effectively sticking your neck out and giving her POWER. You give her the power to decide the outcome… in that moment she gets to decide if you are chad or a creep. If you play it safe and decline the implied “prize” you refuse to play her game and therefore strip her of her apparent power. That’s why they get so mad… smart men don’t take chances with their futures… and don’t play Russian roulette with life changing circumstances “implied” by some mentally unstable twitter zombie.
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@KipperStudios
1 month ago
"I don't want to have to spell everything out like I'm your mother" I don't want to have to pretend to know all of your needs and signals like your FATHER.
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