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Genre: Howto & Style
Date of upload: Apr 5, 2023 ^^
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Yayy you're back! ☺️ Congratulations to you and your partner for buying an apartment! The balcony sounds lovely. 🌱🐦 So sorry to hear about your struggles with your mum's health I really hope she pulls through and everything will be okay. 😟 And also congratulations to the 200,000 subscribers thank you for everything you do for us and ultimately changing our lives for the better 🙏.
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I’m am, according to the MBTI test, an INFJ person, and I watched the video on how to handle life as an HSP person. Those are things that are important to me because when I was in college I would get very nervous after having had too much social interaction, and I couldn’t understand what the issue was. You said it perfectly on the video that, that is a personality trait. Also, I’m focusing myself on becoming a minimalist. It won’t happen over night, but I already do some of the minimalistic stuff that you were discussing, like clothes shopping. I havn’t done that in a few years. I basically have everything I need and I have to get rid of some stuff. Thank you for your videos.
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My big thing the past 9 months is an elderly relative reaching the point she needed to move from an apartment to a room in a 24-hour care home and me managing her bills. So I had to dispose of her furniture and car and bring two dozen file containers to my place to sort through. She'd saved every bill and brochure from the past thirty years, and she'd had to submit her medical receipts every year for a housing discount so she had all those notebooks. Luckily several volunteers helped with the furniture and household items, otherwise I'd be overwhelmed. I've been taking a kind of break from it the past three months, but now I'm in the home stretch to finally finish going through those containers.
I've long been a minimalist. Not extreme, but all my possessions fit in 2-3 pickup truck loads. So it's been an ordeal sorting through a non-minimalist's stuff, deciding what to keep. Some things she needs for use or documentation, some for nostalgia, but I have to decide what will be important in the future and what won't. She now has prefurnished room with few personal possessions, and she wants to avoid clutter accumulating there like it did in the apartment. So she says to throw away all the old photos and items I can't store, because she doesn't want my apartment filled with her clutter either.
So now taking care of my clutter and her clutter has merged into the same thing. I've pared down my files a lot but I still need to do more, and let go of some old books I haven't read, and I'm staring at a yoga mat I haven't used for years but still maybe I'll get back into it someday. So that's the phase I'm in now.
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Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with anxiety going to the doctor, and needing time to recover. And sharing what travel is like for you. I am also highly sensitive, and have similar experiences with doctors and travel, and it's so nice to know I'm not alone. Also, congratulations on your apartment! Buying a house was very stressful for me too.
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Hi, I am 67 yrs. Old, and I found out a few years ago that I am (and always have been) an HSP. What a relief! All my life, I have been called "Too Sensitive". I always was made to feel that there was something wrong with me. Just today, I found your videos! I am looking forward to learning more! Thank you. Lori in Dallas
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Congrats for buying a new home and "survive" all the past stressful moments!
I'm standing in front of the big mountain of selling an old home and buying a new home at the same time and don't know where to start. I'm sure intuition helps with buying/deciding, but with selling? 🤔
Have a great time,
Ulrike
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I so enjoy your lovely spirit. Thank-you for your inspiring acceptance for being a sensitive person, in a fast and furious world. We must remind ourselves to be kind and caring, to our innate ways, before we can do so with those we welcome into our lives. Congratulations on your new home! Be well.
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I'm right there with you, Vera. The simplest everyday things I just have to go in my bedroom and lay down and block out everything to recover. The smallest things that need to be done overwhelm me. I get extremely anxious and cannot sleep or eat. I see these people getting all this stuff done, like it's a breeze and I just shake my head.. How? I am sorry to hear about your mom. I, too, have medical anxiety. My BP shoots up when I get around any medical. I understand everything you are saying.
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@SimpleHappyZen
1 year ago
Woop woop, so excited! 🤗💕 How have you been??
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