Views : 116,217
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Sep 27, 2022 ^^
Rating : 4.885 (159/5,365 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-05T21:35:06.321913Z
See in json
Top Comments of this video!! :3
I m moving out soon, I m afraid of being alone, no roommates, no friends, no family, new palce, new journey, I am feeling like starting an other life and leaving my old one. As a girl, who is related to fam and friends, this step gives me feeling of loneliness and fear. but as a muslim girl, I always remember that Allah is with me in every step.I feel safe even with all the bad feelings.
297 |
You just said what was in my heart since 2 years now. I'm studying abroad, so I've and am passing through everything you said. It's true ; you miss your old self,family moments and friends .but i learnt the hard way that we have to sabr even if it's difficult and be our own cheerleader and parent ,push ourselves and tawakul 3ala allah . Its difficult all by yourself and in a new country especially for a nostalgic girl like me ,but i hope it's gonna be all worth it at the end
118 |
This was very relatable to me and made me realize even more how important family really is. They are the only people who truly care for you. I think moving away was good, only for the fact that it made me more independent and develop skills that would eventually help me and them, and also to appreciate them for all that they've done. I was living with a older person (mentor) who convinced me that my parents were narcissistic and evil, but in reality he was speaking from his own particular experience and was even financially using me and my parents money for his own gain in another state. Still having trouble accepting this right now.
15 |
I have 16 and i completely agree with everything that you said, parents are a really important pillar for our mental health, they used to put pressure on me, as a dumb teenager, i got mad at it, but, now that them gave me a little a more freedom, i strongly feel how my discipline, my grades, everything, went downhill, luckily i recovered (guess thanks to who)
All of this freedom that they gave help me understand the importance of their presence.
Love the vid, cheers and good luck with this new life
(used google traductor btw)
19 |
Thank you for the video, i personally liked the part about friends and choosing your friend. It is good to have that kind of control in your life, cause lately for me i felt like i was forcing myself to be with people i dont feel my best with even if they were good people. I felt i was a bad person to think that way and that it is normal to be friends with someone even though you dont feel good around them , And it is hard to avoid them cause they are nice but i feel drained and not appreciated , but now i have a clear picture thanks to you .
5 |
This is the first video I found, maybe even the first person I’ve heard talk about their experiences moving out and growing up, that feels the same way I do. It’s overwhelming and scary, There are a lot of emotions that I don’t even know that I’m feeling. It’s the first time I’ve ever felt so lost because I was a person who was perceived as driven and diligent and self-reliant , but now I’m starting to realize that even if my parents or teachers or peers weren’t pressuring me, I still was motivated by wanting to impress them. Now that I’m doing things by myself, for myself, I realize I may not have actually been so “self”-driven
37 |
Keep on the good work Moaaz. These videos are extremely helpful and beneficial to the youth and I know exactly how your feeling. I just recently started College and I am trying my best to balance all of things that I want to do in life. One of the things can that really help someone is to enjoy what your doing like enjoy learning and balancing out everything that you want to do throughout the day.
5 |
I still live in this house, and over this I did managed to learn how to cook while my mom is recovering. and the thought of being alone and finding out ways in how to live my life is really hard, no ones there to cheer for you, no ones there to treat you in case you get ail, recently discovered about this stage in our lives and its really up to me to decide on how I live for it.
6 |
@anewno6240
11 months ago
People who have great parents get the sources to move out while people who have toxic parent is stuck with low income and can’t move out because of parents forcing them with guilt trip. moving out means finding peace and happiness for those who grew up with toxic people, having no negative energy around you is peace. Being safe is a blessing.
552 |