Views : 156,692
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Feb 3, 2018 ^^
Rating : 4.947 (73/5,482 LTDR)
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this probably explains why I feel dumber after attending university. I went to a place where I was miserable and developed anxiety and was diagnosed with chronic depression. I fell into a negative mindset and have yet to break it. thanks for the informative video, I realize I'm hurting myself a lot more than I previously thought.
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I was taught by my father at a very young age that complaining gets me nothing. In fact when I was old enough to know what I was doing he would make me stop crying or whining or whatever was going on. To this day I really don't care to complain about a thing. It truly does not help. It doesn't mean I am sunshine all the time, I see things the way they are. But there is just normally no reason to complain especially if I have any control over the situation.
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This means so much to me.. I've been so stressed lately because all the changes that have happened and still are happening since graduation in 2016, especially with being in a new environment (working) and having little or no time left to spend on myself and to relax or see my friends. I realised recently that when I would wake up or going to bed crying out of loneliness and the overwhelmingness of these changes and my hair that started to fall out in clumps and all my complaining to anyone who would listen, that it was not good for me at all, and that I needed to try and do my best to make changes and get myself out more and find some positive relief instead of just looking on the bad side of things. I'm still on my way to that better quality of life I want and I hope I will get there soon, and I hope that this sort of goodness will come to everyone else as well, especially those in similar situations to me.
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My boyfriend's mom literally does not stop complaining once she comes home from work. All of the words that come out is complain after complain. Like i understand she may be stressed out about work but she doesn't even mention anything about work. She just says things I could do better, she only sleeps 6-5 hours daily (which is normal for an adult?). And then she never understands why she is stressed out. She never takes the time to just relax.. Even if the house is clean she finds SOMETHING that is not clean for example the bathroom and cleans it (even though she just cleaned it yesterday) while complaining that we have to do this and that. It's stressful. She really just will find anything at all to complain about.
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This is so true. Me and my best friend were both going through a break up with our bfs at relatively the same time and we both started complaining to each other ALL THE TIME. Then after a few months I felt the both of us getting SICK of each other and never wanting to hang out anymore. Now that I’ve moved on but she’s still stuck on her ex I’m going to do my best to put nothing but positive energy out there. Hopefully she can mirror the same feelings and slowly get over him:)
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Excellent video and very interesting too.
But about complaining, isn't it better to regularly do it, so you can releave your negative thoughts? Just wondering, I find it a relief to tell friends my frustrations now and then, but I always and at any point want to make sure I don't overload them with too much negative energy.
At school, many people complain about the slightest and most useless things in life. Gosh, why can't people talk about fun stuff likes their study or hobbies rather than nitpicking color of the the teacher's shoes... 😔
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