Views : 91,868
Genre: Howto & Style
Date of upload: Sep 11, 2012 ^^
Rating : 4.485 (158/1,068 LTDR)
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Corey. With all due respect to your typically good advice - You couldnât be any more wrong on this. Men donât want to hear about a womanâs ex. It has zero to do with insecurity or neediness or getting âbutthurtâ. It has everything to do with respect. This video is nonsense. Men DO NOT follow this dudes advice on this. You donât have to put up with a chick talking about her ex.
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Overall, I picked a up good piece of advice from Corey; that this is her way of telling of you what she likes. That said, MEN, I WANT TO SAY TO YOU THAT THERE IS NO REASON AT ALL THAT YOU HAVE ACCEPT HER TALKING ABOUT HER EX. As a therapist, I can tell you what most of the men who are listening to this are responding to is the fact that her mentioning her ex is very threatening, as it well should be! We are hard-wired to want to be #1 on her list (as is she wanting to be #1 on our list). There is absolutely nothing wrong with a man saying (playfully) "Is that your way of telling me what you want dear (insert your pet name for her here)? PAUSE and LISTEN I really appreciate you sharing that with me (insert your pet name again here) and in the future I want you to leave your ex out of it. Can we have that agreement?" THAT IS VERY MANLY because you are acknowledging what she is telling you AND setting a boundary about what's acceptable to you! Feel free to tailor the words to your personality, just make sure to Acknowledge Playfully, Listen and Re-Frame it to what's acceptable to you.
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I have to disagree. Any reasonably intelligent woman should be able to convey what she likes without having to bring up specifics from a past relationship. In my experience, bringing up ex's is something from which very little good can come from. Not only that, it really is disrespectful. Most relationships nowadays seem overcrowded as they are. At my age, 48, most any woman I date has at least one divorce behind her and several kids from past relationships. That's plenty of people, and plenty of history There's no need to bring up ex's in a conversation. None whatsoever. I realize this is something women do rather casually, and signifies nothing more than just a differences between the sexes. Nevertheless, it really does get tedious and irritating.
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Thereâs something about the image of the girl i am sleeping with ,and have the intention of taking her seriously, doing something sexually with another man that just makes me feel sick. What makes it even worse is that when that image is not just a bad dream but something that actually happened and it came to your attention by the my girl herself. The very fact that she still remembers the feeling of what her ex did to her makes me crazy. This implies that he maybe was bad boyfriend and therefore he is called an ex now but he was a very good at sex, to the point that she still remembers what he did to her. And now since she doesnât have access to him anymore she would like to experience a similar thing with me. Even if I agree to do that thing every second of it would be torture. Because I am simply trying to make my own girl feel the same way another man did in the past. What the fuck. She could easily tell me that we could do this thing without naming that it is something that her ex but no she chose to name another guy who fucked her before me and remind me that I am fucking someone he tired over. Remind me that she is alpha widow. Coach Corey Wayne I like your channel but this video is pure BS.
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She shouldn't be so open about her past sexual endeavours with other men, any girl knows it makes the guy feel uncomfortable,
She knows an alpha type will have enough options that he won't put up with it and ditch her, so if she's talking to you about guys she banged in the past she sees you as a beta and feels secure enough in knowing you have such limited options youl put up with it. They often may be doing it deliberately to make you uncomfortable, to test your reaction.
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@TheSlimmshadyy
5 years ago
Any person who has respect for their current relationship should be able to communicate what they want without bringing up past relationships.
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