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Date of upload: Dec 9, 2023 ^^
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If your therapist dropped u it may be because they dont feel as a professional that they are the right fit for u...that doesnt mean give up...ive had several quit but then i found one that i can cry with and laugh with and i respect her so much and i can feel that same mutual respect...a real actual professional therapist wont quit on u unless they think they personally arent fully qualified to give u the help and or environment they feel u may strive in better ...being a therapist is hard especially haven to admit your not emotionally mentally or qualified to help said patient...wld u rathe someone keep seeing u knowing they cant help u in ways others could or wld u rather them be honest and send u on a journey to find the perfect fit for u and everyone involved....i almost gave up once but my medication doctor and i were talking and she gave me a recommendation just based off small talks we have had and it took me 10plus years be4 i found my match and i absolutely adore her and i feel respected and heard ...some drs are shit but thats up to u to find who works for and with you...stay safe everyone and good luck in your journeys
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I have had therapy. I'm still so, very messed up. But yet, even if im not a professional or licensed or whatever, I am always there for my friends who need someone to vent to. I didn't get my help so I told myself I'd make them get theirs. And now, I'm a therapist for a few of my friends. I help witb problems and they tell me things they don't tell a lot of people. They can trust me and I always try to help, no matter how impossible or bad the "case" is. And if it seems impossible, I'll find a way. I hope you guys find who you need. Everyone who has been passed on or given up on or whatever, don't give up. I have given up and it hasn't been good. Now I'm helping others. Good luck to everyone.
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I'd like to say "sending your therapist" to therapy doesnt mean you are particularly so messed up. Any therapist knows that hearing tragic and traumatic life experiences takes a toll on anyone and watching someone go through a traumatic event can cause trauma: thats the human brain, ya know? Not to dismiss but theres the possibility if a different therapist was there, they could help. Therapists have their limitations, too, and that doesnt mean it was just your experience that sent him there: usually, its a combination and never just one single event that causes someone to seek therapy. At least he did and didnt try to resolve it himself which could adversely affect other clients. Maybe this helps to alleviate the self loathing which I absolutely understand.
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I'm going to be truthful, I only had 2 therapists, and I quit both of them. I went to therapy for my anger. I constantly had anger built up in me, and just about everyday I would blow up. I learned that therapy only made me more angry, making me feel broken. Time is the best healer. I now have a cool head 3 years later. I rarely get angry anymore.
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when i was in school, they made me talk to someone at school even told my parents forcing them to book an appointment, it wasnt fun at the beginning but when i started going there a couple of times, i started getting used to the girl one time, she said i didnt need her anymore so she sent me away to someone else who i didnt like, i told my parents about it after the first session and they still made me go to the 2nd one then i stopped going after that.
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I hade 10 different therapist in my life I have one right now , It took my two year for me to open up. And when I went to school every day I was getting bullied about eating so I stopped eating but when people I should eat I stuffed my self till I threw up and if people said I’m to fat I would not eat. From all that I started to cut my self till I met my bf he gets me so much:) if any one is dealing with this stuff talk to someone who u trust know will care love yallll
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@ryannvolner2089
3 months ago
Had 4 therapists, 3 of the 4 were like this. My childhood was so shitty I've come up with a little game anytime I get a new therapist- how many sessions until you cry just from hearing what my adopters did to me? The current one I like; she didn't cry, she outright cussed like a sailor with pure rage over how I was treated, and that was the first or second session. 😅
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