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Date of upload: Mar 22, 2024 ^^
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Love this Patrick. Great work. I'd love to hear you collaborating with a client that's not a well-known celebrity or public figure because I'd like to hear about how the common man or woman deals with their family dynamic, Especially those that had to escape or emancipate themselves from their bio family of origin.. For me it would be more relatable. And "a working class hero is something to be".
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I really appreciate all the research and work and time and energy you put into creating these. They are so fascinating,and very well done. Tho I may struggle to agree with parts of it, I think a lot of that comes from my own childhood stuff that's on its way to being healed. Mostly that I'm in a heavy space of anger and pushing back on the blame shifting and projecting and gaslighting. This is such a sad story for all the many many people he grew up around and then chose to continue to surround himself with. That part I can relate to as well. I'm grateful for therapists like yourself and that we have such access to watch and learn on here. I shudder to think what my life would be like now, if I'd not gotten at least a little benefit from therapy and the few folks who have stood for my health and well being.
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Patrick -- this was really amazing and so interesting. Love your approach using the stories of well known people that all or most of us know, what a great idea. If I could be so bold, I would like to hear your analysis of a complex person that I'm particularly fond of, that being Maynard James Keenan of the band Tool....just thinking out loud....maybe others would be curious about that also? Fantastic job, thanks for all you do!
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It has always bothered me that John Lennon abandoned his son, Julian, but I had never made the connection before that he had narcissistic tendencies before as a result of his own childhood trauma. I knew about the drug and alcohol addictions. Drugs and alcohol can make people present as possessed by demons or narcissistic. Thank you for this deep dive. His money would have been better spent on more therapy than on drugs and alcohol. I am glad for his positive contributions to society and am sad for the sad waste of potential at the same time. I would also like to think that John Lennon would have made progress in his healing, had he lived longer.
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Really interesting, fascinating and eye opening! Thank You!!! I knew the Julienne story; how John abandoned him but I didnāt know most of the other abusive behaviors. What an asshole! The wife beatingā¦naw dog, completely unacceptable. I can totally understand and forgive all the other things, if he got healthy and took responsibility, but not beating up his wife. He sounds like a malignant narcissist to me.
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As a distressed teen, I found comfort in āImagineā, so it was likewise a shock to discover the other side of him. Something Iāve learned since is that poetry can be a way for narcissistic people to tap into their own emotions. I first realised this with my difficult Dad, who repeatedly stole my childhood poetry books. Years later, he proudly sent me a photocopy of Larkinās āThis be the Verseā - probably the closest I got to an apology from my Dad for his bad behaviour. Larkin had great insight into inter-generational trauma and expressed it brilliantly but also had very troubled relationships with the women in his life. Another conundrum that we trauma survivors have to grapple with - people can have beautiful and vindictive emotions at the same time.
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@saragates2255
1 month ago
Wow this is absolutely FASCINATING! Thank you for the incredible amount of research it must have taken to accomplish this insight! Great stuff š
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