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A lot of women might find that to be a turn off, but I personally wouldn’t. It seems pretty practical. He took the time to plan the date and made sure the cost was taken care of so that she didn’t have to worry about it.
I have high standards as far as respect, kindness and love. And I also hold myself to those standards. I don’t think using a discount code is a reliable indicator of the kind of meaning, support and love a partner can offer.
I suppose maybe people are looking for different things in a relationship.
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It also signals that you don’t have situational awareness, or that you’re prioritising a small win over a big win…these all signal incompetence. These are life skills that you need for a successful long term partnership/parenthood/financial security. He clearly flagged that he had not understood the assignment…he can apply again (if the job opens up, at a later date) when he has the required skill-set for the job.
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There's a real divide on this one. I think the reality is I would probably consider using this coupon, especially if i dont have much money. If im working hard all week and asking a woman out, I obviously want to come through and be able to afford to be having a nice meal
Illl never let her see I have a coupon UNLESS i have specifically told her before hand "hey listen I have a 2for1 at this place and the food there is fantastic id really love to take you.
Its situational and down to the individuals involved. There is not right or wrong answer here. it's more how you handle the situation, I believe.
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I tell my son to only date who he can afford. Men want certain classes of women and then get upset with her for not accepting less than what she is accustomed to. Date only within your socieoeconomic means unless you are up for the challenge and dont expect her to change by shaming her into "not wanting too much". My husband became rich because he took on the challenge of courting me years ago. His family was poor, but mine was not so while I have compassion I liked things a certain way. He never shamed me or wanted me to settle. I also kept my expectations within his means and let him know what I desired long term.
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Agree. Its not just about being a tight-ass! But also not making the woman feel special, that uou tegard her as special and worth some effort. It doesnt mean you have to spend a lot of money.
My best First Date he brought a picnic basket of goodies that he'd shopped for and put together. It probably cost him 1/2 of what a standard meal at a cheap restaurant would have cost, but what won me over was the thoughtfulness and time and effort he put in to creating an experience. That made me feel special. That made me see him as special.
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My husband knows that I HATE overspending. Keep as much money on Your side of the fence. Our first date was a picnic.We shopped for the picnic items together (fun.) And went to a beautiful historic park with a blanket. I cannot tell you how many people walked by and smiled at us. Experience or dollars. Dollars doesn't mean more value.
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unfortunately this is true, it happened to my parents' marriage. first date dad used coupon. when I came along he didn't want to pay for disposable diapers. he made good money. just didn't want to spend it. I think for people who cant afford a fancy restaurant just make sandwiches and fruit, throw an elaborate romantic picnic date. at least it shows you're thoughtful, made an effort, but not poor or cheap.
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Robert is absolutely correct!! If you don’t have the money to take someone out then don’t go on a date!! I grow up with an European father who was a gentleman his entire life and in Europe you still find men that would be a gentleman especially in the Latin countries. In America you find the most cheap man or perhaps in countries with Anglo saxophones
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Watch the full podcast on YouTube, Robert Greene in The Diary of a CEO
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