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THIS is gentle parenting. It’s parenting but not screaming. Gentle parenting does NOT mean you tell your child not to do things and then do NOTHING to enforce it. Instead of screaming, you speak softly. Instead of getting angry, you stay calm. Reassuring, loving, kind, and definitely not as scary as some parents are. You are gentle but you still make sure they know and do what you want. This is the right way to treat and raise children. 👏👏
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I made nap time positive for my kids by teaching them that they don't have to go to sleep but do "quiet time" activities like thinking, meditating, reading or day dreaming. They usually fell asleep within 5 minutes. 😊
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Naptime is always a positive experience for me til now the 41th year. Thanks mom.
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Really patient, but the point that the boy can't express his anger freely and is immediately shut down. The strategy to get him from crying and telling him "if you can't ne nice, you have to sit there and take a break out till you're nice again" sends him the message that everytime he cries, he's not nice. Kids are always nice, even if they cry.
"I understand you, baby, you don't want to go to sleep. It's okay that you cry and I give you an extra hug. What I see, is that you are really tired. Let's read a book together in your bed, and I will stay with you, until you're asleep. I will hold you safe in my arm!"
That's what I was missing in the conversation with this poor tired boy, trying to express his feelings, that actually aren't heard.
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Such an amazing mom
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A child is not allowed to do everything, BUT it is allowed to show all its feelings. Be there for your children with warmth and attention and allow them to cry and feel bad!! This makes them feel loved, unconditionally.
The child in this video is only 2, impulse control is only learnt by toddlers from the age of 4. All he is learning here is to suppress his feelings because otherwise he will have to expect a withdrawal of love (time out).
Teach him to understand and process his "negative" feelings instead of forbidding him to be sad/angry! 🙏🏻 That would help him so much more for his adult lif
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That mother is the most patient and loving woman I've ever seen.
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I love how intentional this mama is in her loving! As a single mom to 20 & 15 w special needs - sometimes being patient is so hard - kudos to you for coregulating this baby’s emotions with such kindness! I do not feel we should tell our kids to “smile” right after big feelings, however. I feel it teaches that only certain emotions are acceptable. With boys in particular, we’ve got to give them ways not to stuff anger or sadness down. I also feel we should ASK for a hug instead of telling a child to hug. These things ultimately teach them about boundaries & safety - and they will go on to respect others’ boundaries in kind. In the end being a “good enough” parent is the goal. Thank you for sharing a moment of your lives with us 🥰
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Sorry, this is not my style...I feel that expressions of children shouldn't be manipulated by the parents' wishes (see the beginning)!
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Him so handsome! They just melts your heart!
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Very well done.
It also helps the child to identify that he's tired and he'll likely feel better after his nap. His tiredness may well be the reason he had the moodiness in the first place. ❤
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It is so important for them to know their betime routines and also be able to express what they need and feel. Awe.
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Excellence and loving patience 💯 ✨️ 😌
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very nice - except that crying isn't being bad. It's being a two year old. Let him cry and give him a big love. Then take him gently to bed.
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I love the way this young mum gets down to her child’s level and speaks in a warm way. Love her giving her child some options so her child feels they have some choice, some degree of autonomy, particularly when they obviously don’t want to take a nap. Love the comforting rituals she has built into nap time so bub feels they have something to look forward to. But this is not a tantrum. None of us like being told what to do. We struggle with this as adults. We struggle with big difficult feelings as adults - disappointment, frustration, anger. But at this young age the child is encouraged to deny how they feel and put on a “happy face.” The child is simply reacting to something he doesn’t want to do. His crying is the result of what he is feeling in the moment. His feelings aren’t good or bad. They just are. Labelling them as “not nice” and not allowing their expression tells this child that certain emotions are unacceptable. We have an emotional repertoire for a reason. This invalidation of how her child feels is not healthy for a child’s emotional development. It may well create problems down the line. I am speaking from experience. I have used this approach. You end up with compliant children and life seems easier and people complement you on how good your children are and what a wonderful mother you must be but these children can grow into adult people pleasers who have trouble identifying, trusting, accepting and processing their emotions.
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Those cries. In the moment they make you want to pop, but even now with 2 under 2 hearing river cry made me sad but also smile a little knowing one day ill miss these moments and would give anything to be hear again. The cries of a baby/toddler are innocent and frustrated, confused. They need help and thats OUR purpose. I have to be reminded of that often❤
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Very cute but please don’t force him to stop his emotions ❤❤❤
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I'll be a mom in 2 months and you have no idea how happy I am to learn from you.... I hope I can be as patient and loving as you❤❤❤
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It's lovely seeing parents treat their children like human beings and helping them with their big feelings. Kids are so precious, we owe them a nurturing childhood
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@eenusch6225
1 month ago
I need someone to give me a hug and a blankey - and I'm 58.
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