At the heart of our beings, we're all decision-makers, yet this doesn't make the process of choosing any less taxing or overwhelming. Struggling to make decisions, whether in life-altering crossroads or quotidian dilemmas, is an integral part of the human condition. And the root cause, often, lies in our internal battles - battles with overanalyzing, seeking external validation, and striving for perfection.

Imagine standing at the precipice of decision-making, with countless paths stretching into the horizon. Each one is different, their outcomes unknown, and therein lies the first challenge: overanalyzing. As humans, we’re equipped with a brain that has the power to conjure up myriad scenarios, each with its array of pros and cons. This cognitive capability, while useful, can sometimes trap us in an infinite loop of what-ifs, creating paralysis by analysis. Every path we consider leads to more paths, and soon, the forest of decision-making becomes so dense, it's impossible to see the sunlight through the trees.

Next, we find ourselves grappling with a powerful force, external validation. Our decisions, consciously or subconsciously, are often swayed by the desire for acceptance, approval, and acknowledgment from those around us. From the clothes we wear, to the careers we pursue, the decisions are not always entirely our own, but rather a reflection of societal norms and expectations. This incessant yearning to fit into the boxes defined by others can lead us astray, leaving us in a labyrinth of confusion and self-doubt.

Finally, we have the relentless pursuit of perfection. In an ideal world, every decision we make would yield the perfect outcome. But life is inherently unpredictable and chaotic. The quest for the flawless choice can often lead us to a standstill, as we're overwhelmed by the fear of making a mistake, of not achieving the absolute best. This, in turn, can result in missed opportunities and stagnation, as we wait indefinitely for the 'perfect' moment.

At a glance, these struggles may seem like barriers, shadows clouding our decision-making. But on closer inspection, they're not just barriers; they're also mirrors, reflecting our deepest fears, insecurities, and desires. They force us to question, to reflect, and ultimately, to grow. While it’s natural to fear making the wrong decision, it’s important to remember that it's through these struggles we learn. It’s through these battles we evolve. And it’s through these decisions, perfect or not, that we truly live.

Why you struggle with making decisions:

Your fear change and the unknown.
You worry about disappointing others.
You overanalyze every possible outcome.
You aren't aware of your goals, values and needs.
You struggle with self-doubt and don't trust yourself.
Your past choices didn't turn out well, and you fear being in unhealthy, hurtful situations again.
You tend to seek external validation and struggle with trusting your own judgment.
You have perfectionist tendencies, always seeking the perfect choice and fearing making a mistake.