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But once the relationship ends, that fear of engulfment fadesā¦ and reflection begins.
š§ They start to realize how much you were giving
š They recognize they couldāve shown up differently
š¶ But instead of reaching out, they stay silentābelieving āwhatās done is doneā
Not because they donāt care, but because being vulnerable now feels even harder.
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Iāll admit to having the fantasy that āsomeday my DA ex will realize what she lost and come back begging for another chanceā, but after nearly two years it hasnāt happened. Yes, a āhope youāre doing wellā breadcrumb text every few months, but Iām accepting that may well be the closest she ever comes to being vulnerable.
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The problem is that DAs often lack enough self awareness to actually reflect on their behavior.
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Unfortunately the answer will always be NO. They are too afraid to be better for themselves and their relationship. FEAR RUNS THEIR LIFE! Such a sad way to live life.
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They dont chase but little NC and a little breadcrumb from you and they run towards you again. It's really doesn't worth, friends. Those people are sick. Congrats to all who find stranght to close the door forever for DA!! š
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And its their choice. Let them go then.
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Hard to even know if she reflected on her behaviors. She started up with a younger, shinier new guy after 3 months of platonic with me. Sheās continuing her regular patterns of money branching. I recognized her avoidance behaviors and I instinctively behaved with the right things as I look back. But thanks to you, Iām learning and re-centering my secure style
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All of them realize but their ego comes in the way of reconciliation and they spend the rest of their life making up a false narrative to themselves that it wasn't gonna work.. whether it's shart fling or decades of marriage. Unhealed DA will react the same way irrespective of how much effort the partner puts. Therapy is the only way which few of them seek after multiple failed relationships. Most of the live a life of denial and fear.
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Makes sense right? I want to be happy with whoever but i also realize i make mistakes but can take responsibility and strive to be the best i can be. These people are like ghost ships in a vast sea with no direction or purpose.
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Does this actually happen? In my experience they never get to this point. They just suppress, dump and move on.
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DAs will always be miserable and will make others miserable until they actually work on being vulnerable and keeping their word. I've dated many DAs, and I don't know a single one yet who has actually done the work to heal, they simply don't see themselves as the problem
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this was really insightful! is this behaviour a fearful avoidant would display as well, or is this unique to dismissive avoidants?
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hi,
love your videos!
is it somehow possible to change their mind after this realization?
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Once in a blue moon maybe.
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Sounds like such a waste of time dealing with a AD
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In this spot right now, he is DA, and NPD I believe. HE was not showing up the right way, and I really think he came to realize it, it also affected him professionally, so now he is stepping back professionally for the nxt yr or so. I thus wonder if he has realized or might get some help. Everyone says they don't so this means I should not think he will appreciate me again. HE needs help, but what he did to me was pretty, anytime I wish to message him what I think, I can, most say walk away but, sometimes it is ok to say something without attacking you know?
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So DA's never go back to thier ex? I
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Yes but when twin flames its painful as gell straight up boundaries self love for me i pour my cup NOW matter faxt 2 cups ā¤ā¤ā¤ā¤
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@jacktee5
2 months ago
The pain they cause is indescribable. I could never treat somebody like that and I think it's just really made me lose faith in humanity. It has messed with my mental and physical health so much and there was no apology, no remorse, nothing. It's just left me questioning what I did, questioning if anyone will ever love me. It's completely devastating. I don't even know if DAs understand the level of destruction they cause and if they even care. These people have spoiled my life. I've fought for so long but my spirit feels really broken after years of this behaviour. I truly don't know how to trust people ever again and I really curse the day I began to chat with my ex partner.
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