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I asked a friend why he always half jokingly ran himself down. He's handsome, friendly and good at what he does. He said he hadn't really thought about it but that he reckoned maybe he didn't want people to think him too cocky. I respect that. It's a part of our culture too. But I said he didn't need to do that when it was just us. That seemed to choke him up a little and we became closer friends. Now I realise I need to do that for myself
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I believe this. I live this. By flying under the radar, not being competitive with my career and personal life I avoid rejection ridicule and failing, looking foolish, being humiliated. It is the fear of man that I must be struggling with, it's all about protecting myself from feeling those negative hurtful feelings I experienced growing up and in my young adult life.
It feels much safer for me to be unseen. I think we reject ourselves to "beat them to the punch'. Not opening ourselves up to more pain, expect less of others and think less of yourself is definitely a defense mechanism.
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My older sister was jealous of me for being naturally thinner, and she thought our mother loved me more. I didnโt know this back then. All I knew was that my sister hated me and loved getting me into trouble, making fun of me, and sabotaging my relationships. My parents passively condoned her behaviors by not paying attention to them and by trying to assuage her insecurities by favoring her. It created a disaster for me back then because I grew to believe in my utter worthlessness. Itโs taken me until my late 40s to reclaim my self worth BUT I DID IT AND YOU CAN TOO ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ค๐ฉโ๐ผ๐ฅฐ. I finally feel equal to the rest of humanity and find that because of overcoming a lot of this trauma, I am able to spot it and will be helping others understand this stuff through my writings and coaching. Hugs. Keep healing. Itโs so worth it! Let the limiting crust of victimhood crack and fall away like a dead layer of snakeskin as you grow into your natural beauty. That old crust canโt contain the big, br
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What the man said happened to me. I was a success. Had the house with the ocean view and everything. I did not keep my light under a basket. I built the house myself.
My girlfriend viciously undermined me. My family went out of their way to destroy everything and kick me when I was down.
I have spent years in emotional pain. I have no family anymore.
I have seen demons.
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There are consequences for choosing exploring the illusion of separation. There are consequences for choosing to awaken from the illusion of separation and to awaken to Oneness, Wholeness, Unity. There are consequences for choosing exploring that which is beyond Oneness. Whatever we are choosing exploring, there will be consequences and everyone is not going to like what we are choosing exploring. Thank you Teal for talking about this. Love and compassion to all non-physical beings exploring themselves in the physical, challenging.
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EXACTLY! Especially in relationship with narcisistic mother who made you compleetely dependant from her emotional states.
Its better to be "incapable" of anything wirh her because then sge feels unthretend. But if you present a value of self she automatically shuts you down to hold her status quo. She don't like that you could develop , because her "value" is in "denger" .
Its such a tragic life story.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR TALKING ABOUT IT! I WISH THIS WILL BE DISCLOSED MOOOOORE . WE NEED TO BECOME CONSCIOUS ABOUT THIS ISSUE AND REALIZE SOLUTIONS.
GOOD LUCK TO ALL CHILDREN (OR NOW GROWN PEOPLE) WHO DEAL WITH DEVOURING MOMS.
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@NicMercy
1 week ago
Another "benefit" of believing in low self-worth is that you expect less of yourself and in turn others expect less from you. That can be beneficial in the sense that if the world feels overwhelming to you, it can alleviate some of the pressures life/people foist upon us. It doesn't allow you to grow though. It's a retreat. A shelter. But it shouldn't become a permanent home.
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