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Top Comments of this video!! :3
If we don't get enough info we might fuck up.
Must not fuck up.
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This can become a real problem when the answer to “why?” Is because that’s just how it’s done, or it’s always been done that way. I’ve left jobs and quit tasks because the ‘why’ didn’t make logical sense
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I've learned to make clear that I'm just being curious and that "I don't know" is a completely valid answer.
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I constantly say, “I like to know the why behind things. I don’t know how to truly explain it.” I NEVER KNEW THIS WAS APART OF AUTISM.
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As a kid I would ask tons of questions. My mom, single parent, loved it. She thought it showed curiosity and intelligence and wanted to foster it.
It wasn't long before she started having to answer "I don't know."
Reading other comments here, I realize how lucky I have been in this regard. ❤
Not so lucky, though, in that she thought I was wise beyond my years, instead of recognizing my autism. I'm 40 now, and only a month ago I received my diagnosis.
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This is so me it's scary! Like I'd ask a pro at something like "are you sure?" and they'll think I'm questioning their knowledge... No, I just want a little confirmation to ease my mind...
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yes this. I've gotten trouble at previous jobs for doing it and it wasn't until I had bosses that has experience with neurodivergent management that they would either explain what I needed or be able to word it in such a way that it satisfied my brain I had trouble getting some people to understand that I wasn't disrupting authority but that in order for me to process the information my brain wants to know why things are done the way they are if there are different or better alternatives
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I've had bosses hate me because I will ask so many questions and follow up questions. I also ask "am I doing this right" at least 3 times to be sure that I'm doing it right.
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The behaviors like asking questions was beat out of me but I really do have so many thoughts and questions that almost always go unanswered.. instead I just do a ridiculous amount of research to ease my mind and understand my environment better
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I ask a lot of questions, but I need time to process first, so my questions always come later. For example, at job interviews when I am asked if I have any questions, I never do at the time, but I always tell them that I need to process and that I will have questions later. And then I bombard them with questions in an email a day or two later (I refuse to use the phone 🤪).
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Your YouTube shorts are worth clicking on 100% of the time. 💙
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People get so so annoyed when I ask lots of questions.. :( I just want to be sure I can do everything right
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My problem with them asking that is the blank I get. I might have a laundry list of questions but I just shut down.
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Exactly, when my brain needs to know what something is, how it works, why it works, what it's used for and how something is used to learn something since my brain is very logic based.
Where for any given situation it takes past experiences with similar problems along with information, data and methods it has on a problem to construct different ways to handle a situation, then runs probability analysis in order to figure out based on context and experience which solutions is most likely and what would lead to the best outcome.
So in an environment of vagueness or low detail my head can struggle to formulate or understand a situation enough to formulate or find solutions to a situation, conversation or problem I'm dealing with, especially when I can't determine the context to things, weather I'm unable to produce a valid context or if I can formulate multiple valid contexts given the circumstances.
The fact my head is also very expectation based on how it manages my mental resources, having enough details about whatever it is allows me to properly plan out what wealth of information I have needs to be in working memory for consideration.
But yeah when I explain stuff I don't only explain about an answer but the reason behind the thing or answer I came to so the other person can follow along and get a better explanation of why, my head literally has a logical explanation for everything that goes on in my head and everything that's in place.
My brain is saying I probably conveyed about 83% of my intended point across effectively but yeah, feel free to ask
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I like to do a bunch of research on any of my procedures so when I go to the doctor they constantly ask if I work in health care, I say no I just know a lot about very specific things. They look at me like I have two heads
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Yes, wow. I actually tried really hard to not ask and found myself lost and not seen or heard. Thank you for these shorts.
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Understanding is the key and the goal, but when asking ND people our questions we often forget (or struggle to explain) that to them. I find having one or two ways handy to translate my intentions to Normie speak can prevent misunderstandings. Sometimes. It still sure as hell isn't easy or even reliable method, but since this comes up most often with people who don't really know us we can learn what works and reuse and improve them over time.
I find if it comes across as curiousity it helps, but I've never been able to force that effect if it wasn't honest. I've long since given up on learning to mask and focused on piecemeal mitigation. It's easier... I think. Kinda. Probably.
For me at least.
But I strongly believe we all need to find our own tools to get by, and that sharing what works for us can help others find and improve their own.
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This drives my family absolutely crazy. I can't do what I need to do without understanding more information than a lot of others may need.
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My math teacher finally yelled at me to “omg Just Memorize it, no one cares WHY” ….so I did then all A afterwards….i couldn’t “understand “ math so I didn’t get it but you tell an ASD person to memorize … we’re ON IT😂
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@theresjer
2 months ago
My supervisor would get annoyed until I asked 'would you rather answer my stupid questions or fix my stupid mistakes?'
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