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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Why does she keep asking him if he's 'ready to be nice'?? He's NOT being mean. He's just crying. I would ask him why he's crying. The mom is often really good with him when he's crying, but I DON'T like her asking him if he's ready to be nice. This poor little guy!
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all parents should stop filming the children when they are in a difficult situation..don't you film yourself when you have a more delicate situation... please offer these little people privacy...
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He is absolutely precious!!! š
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I prefer so-called gentle parenting. Young children don't need time out as punishment or to "cool down," say experts like psychologist Sarah Ockwell-Smith. the child is stigmatized as soon as it behaves like a toddler. A time out is therefore exactly the opposite of what the child needs now. The area of the brain that is responsible for controlling impulses, managing emotions and thinking (the neocortex) only begins to mature at around three years of age. It will take more years until it is somewhat mature. A small child is therefore not yet able to control strong feelings, reflect on his behavior or even decide to behave differently from now on. But parents expect all of this when they send their little delinquent onto the stairs alone.
The effect in this short is drill: The child is conditioned in such a way that turns their feelings inward, so they no longer show us how they really feel. Experts are warning that these inward-looking feelings later promote depression, self-harming behavior, eating disorders and uncontrolled aggression.
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It breaks my heart to see how he looks at the camera - being filmed while sobbing and crying. And then you put this on the internet for every kind of person to watch.
Are you crazy? He is a human being; He has privacy rights.
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This is horrible. He is to small to really regulate his emotions on his own. But he he is so dependent of his mom that she can force him to split off his feelings to feel loved again.
Yes, it works. Because the worst fear of a kid is to loose its parents love.
He needs her help and her love more than in any other situation. And she leaves him alone.
What is he going to learn now? āYou will only be loved and save, if you are always kind. No matter what your really feel.
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No! Crying does not mean not being nice. Crying means he is distressed and needs mom
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I'm not sure what happened but crying is not a bad behavior it's his form of communication so why is that a time out pretty soon he will feel like he should never cry.
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I wonder does the husband put mother in the time out whenever she isnāt nice or have a tantrum? This is just a toddler having a moment, for godās sakeā¦ asking such a little boy if he is going to be nice is pointlessā¦
Deal with his emotions and tell him that he has every right to be upset/tired and so on, itās a child for f sakeā¦
Everyone here (almost) say she is a good momā¦ but a good mom acknowledges emotions and gets to the bottom of the problem and not ignore such a small boy and put him in the time out. He wants kisses and cuddles, not feeling shit for being just a little boy.
Take from mom of 4 boysā¦
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If heās kicking or throwing things then yeah absolutely itās a good thing to do time out but if heās crying, even if heās crying now itās not necessarily a bad thing. Remember toddler canāt always tell you how the feeling or talk very well so itās pretty frustrating for them
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Poor kids , treated like performing monkeys . To prove what a āwonderful ā Mom she is . Note Iām, being scarcastic about her parenting.
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This moms needs a serous time out themselves,if they only new how much damage this behavior will do to a child brain,this teaching was applied to my grandchildrens, the only thing they lern is low self esteem and to be controlled or to control,I lern all this true life experience,I see my 20 years old grandchildren with no confidence,we can teach them true love and example if I had done my job better my children would have done better to,when I watch this tapes it harts me and I feel their pain,children want to please their parents this is another form of abuse, I wish I knew then what I know now,my children would have been much more confident and not be controlled and would have passed on this to their children, stop and look to their faces,at this young age youāll see only pain but as they grow older the pain will turn in to hunger.
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You are rewarding good behavior and not giving attention to the bad . Bravo !! And you stay calm as well !
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I feel so bad when I see him crying aloneš¢
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This hurts watching.. he has big feelings and needs a hug. Its not about being gentle while teaching him to swallow his emotions.. its about helping him to understand what he is feeling and what he needs. Or to offer an alternative. Instead, he is told that he isn't nice while having big emotions..and he is getting the hug/ is lovable only after shutting down his emotions. Please.. read the science. Or simply listen to your instincts. This child needs co-regulation, cuddeling and a bit hug.
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A crying child isn't being not "nice"! They're just dealing with the frustrations of being little and not being able to communicate! You're teaching your children that every time they're upset, they're being bad! Wrong word to use.
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He is expressing upset. The next time you need a good cry will you be put into time out? Very neglectful imo. Teaches children to suppress normal emotions. And conditional love. Heartbreaking š¢
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I worry that this might be teaching them that their emotions are bad and need punishment. Do you think they understand your expectations when you do this? (Not making assumptions, just a little concerned is all)
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I know Iām not going to be the popular voice here but this is the second video Iāve watched of this child getting timeout. He seems overly tired to me in both videos. And while your timeout method worked, I feel like he complied because he didnāt want to be apart from you and not because he felt he was wrong. In my opinion, his crying was the only way his little mind could communicate to you that he was overtired and could use some comforting rest. The message, in my opinion, when he was sent to time out, was clear that he chose the wrong way to communicate to you that he was tired, with no instruction on what he should do in the future to communicate to you that he needed rest. He may not have even known thatās what he needed. Sometimes, itās up to the parent to problem solve what the real issue is and try to resolve the underlying issue. For reference, I have twin 16 year olds. Iāve seen that look many times. Did I always handle it perfectly? No. But just a different perspective.
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@Sophie-P
3 weeks ago
Honestly I need to do this with myself! I need to get better at catching when Iām being snarky or rude and giving myself time for self regulation. Thanks for the reflection and great parenting Liv ā¤
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