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Not an a-hole, but neither is the husband. It makes sense for him to change his mind about raising kids, when the kids are his own blood. Itโs hard to turn family over to the foster care system even if you never planned to be a parent.
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I couldn't imagine letting kids who were related to my husband or myself go into the foster care system.
I know not everyone is the same but I couldn't even be friends with someone who would turn their back on children in obvious need.
That said, she may be doing them all a favor by leaving - imagine if he got sick and she just decided she doesn't wanna be a nursemaid.
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Those poor children..3 deadbeat fathers & 1 deadbeat mother! ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ
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THIS FAKE DUMB ASS STORY LMAOOO
THATS NOT EVEN HOW THE LAW WORKS IF THEY FOUND THE MOM SHE JUST CANT SAY IM NOT COMING HOME WITH OUT REPERCUSSIONS ๐
ADOPTION AND ABANDONMENT ARE TWO SEPARATE DAMN THINGS!!
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That container is GORGEOUS <3
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This is beautiful!๐๐๐ธ๐ท๐ชปโ๏ธ
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Love the flowers!! This might be one of my favorite pieces of yours!!
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Here's the thing she isn't the Ahole in this, they don't have the resources to take care of those 3 kids and they agreed they didn't want any.
But as a woman in the same situation, my boyfriend agreed to this but he's more open to having/raising kids.
If we were in a similar situation, I think we'd try to find a way to help foster those kids, we have a free bedroom that can hold 2 beds and a big living-room in which many friends/family have slept.
So getting them for weekends and holidays sounds very doable! And probably pretty fun for them!
For school, my boyfriend has a pretty big family and they can probably figure something out.
But yeah this is an incredibly hard situation and I feel awful for those kids and OP!
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NTA. She has the right to say no to raising her SIL's children. It's her SIL's fault for putting those children, her brother and his wife into this situation. It's sounds like she's not ready to have her life turned upside down.
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So what do you do with your neices or nephews? Abandon them? Sometimes life puts you in situations and are unpleasant to you. They are blessings in disguise. Keep them while you contact their mother and figure things out. Maybe she just needs time and since she's family, help her out. Talk with family services and figure things out.
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Girlll I thought if the name resinate and to sleep it like that the other day but you beat me to it lol thatโs crazy
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I think they're all jerks in this situation except the husband. Those poor kids were left by there mom. the grandma doesn't want them and neither does OP. it's not fair to the children to be abandoned by everyone like this.
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Not an ahole but that's a big hurdle.
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Just leave the mom and her Sons. She's clearly spoilt them and they see him as an intruder. There basically grown yet acting like babies. He should just leave or wait a few years for them to move out so he can have some peace. This is also why ppl marriages fail, they kp putting the kids first when they should never be.
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I'd say yes a bit of an ahole, you can't feel that strongly about hubby if it only takes a few months of kids. But at same time I understand some ppl just can't cope with kids, so they can have deadbeat dad, deadbeat mum, and deadbeat aunt. Poor kids!
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So what do you do with your neices or nephews? Abandon them? Sometimes life puts you in situations and are unpleasant to you. They are blessings in disguise. Keep them while you contact their mother and figure things out. Maybe she just needs time and since she's family, help her out. Talk with family services and figure things out. I hope the kids will be ok and not face foster care. Maybe you should visit an orphanage and see what kids go through. I give your husband credit for stepping up and wanting to raise them. If you do decide to divorce him I wish him the best in raising the kids. It isn't easy for a single man to raise kids but if he is willing, more power to him. He's a quality person, someone you should consider keeping
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Yes save the kids
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Yes
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Like theyre a burdern how mean ๐ข
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@Dallop-ru2
1 month ago
She understandably doesnโt want to care of the kids, and he (also understandably) does. I personally think it would be worse than having these three kids feel unloved or unwanted by their adoptive mother.
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