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Yta. You caused a scene at your fathers funeral because you dont like your sisters attire. Whether or not her outfit was what you consider appropriate you decided your disapproval of her outfit was more important than her saying good bye. Funerals are for the living not the dead. Your dad doesnt give a shit what anyone wore to his funeral because he is dead. She had just as much right to be there as you or your mother did.
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I feel like it's not something to kick someone out for. Just ignore her and have a discussion about it later. A funeral may not be the place for those clothes. But a funeral really isn't the place for causing a scene over the clothes. So I think both are the ahole but I dont think kicking her out over her clothes was reasonable
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Why are you the family police? You had no right to tell her to leave because YOU DON'T LIKE her. It wasn’t her clothing it was you just not liking her. Also, why can't your mom be a mess? He was her husband, and probably for years, she didn't even know who she was without him! There is no timeliness for when the funeral had to take place. She could have waited until she was in a better frame of mind. You don't know how much it hurt her. Just because you are the self appointed CEO of your family it doesn't mean that you can bully your family. I'm sorry for your loss but you owe your family apology but don't be surprised when they don't respond well to you.
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I think it's perfectly respectable, especially if you think about who died. I'd hope that my loved ones arrive at my funeral comfortable in their wardrobe. So long as it isnt underwear or naked (basically kid friendly), then show up. At least she DID show up. Some people don't.
My grandma was much the same way when she passed away. She asked that we wear her favorite color, but after that, it was fair game. Her color was purple, so I made a dress that had stars on it. Another of my cousins wore white and purple. My grandma casket was purple and we all drew on it before they buried her.
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I found some stuff because I searched the post
The sister is 26 and has not spoken to her father in literal years, they had a falling out and she did not go see her dad on his death bed when she was given multiple opportunities and reminders to go
There was a dress code which specifically stated formal black attire so not mini skirts and t-shirts with skulls and fishnets to their dads funeral
Also a funeral is not about you it is about mourning someone who has died, blatantly disregarding the dress code for your dads funeral when you didn’t even go see him on his death bed is disrespectful as hell. A bunch of actual emos and goths on reddit have said that she was acting like a disrespectful child for making another persons funeral about her though her blatant disregard of the dress code, with many stating that there are times it’s not appropriate to go full goth, with them listing examples of times they toned it down or wore things they usually wouldn’t to show their love for the person at a wedding or funeral
Also wearing skulls to a funeral is like wearing white to a traditional wedding, hella disrespectful and very mocking of the person being commemorated
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@ResinateByChanel
5 months ago
Okay so I will say that I wouldn't have kicked her out of the funeral because she still deserves a chance to grieve and get her closure..... But I also think that it was disrespectful for the sister to show up to the funeral dressed that way...... So in my opinion ESH.... What do you guys think?
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