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As an asexual; thanks for re-confirming that for me here. I'm still a virgin, but the idea of s*x just gets a hearty 'meh' from me at best, and I just don't understand the hype about it. Like, I'm definitely cool with how I am, I just find myself wondering why the heck society makes such an immensely big deal out of the horizontal tango. And I often wonder why sex jokes are even a thing. Like, 90% of the time, my mind is just literally on anything else than s*x.
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I'm not opposed to sex in general. But, the thought of me actually doing it with someone is just triggering in way. I feel disgusting (about myself and my body, I mean). I don't know why, but it's one of the main reasons why I don't plan on getting married. Ever. Because I don't wanna marry someone who wants sex, but I don't.
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Thank you for this. I've been aware for a while that my own stems from the inability to consider trusting another with MY body. There are so many things that could go wrong that it's made me afraid in a lot of ways, even though I know there must be at least one more person like me, who would prefer cuddling and general intimacy 99% of the time, and the last 1%, probably needs just a little bit of sexual intimacy before being good for several months.
But there's so much obsession with sex in general that I'm intimidated at the idea of revealing this to a potential partner, for fear they'd mock me for it, or play along like they understand and respect it, only to then turn around and break my heart over it by cheating or trying to force me when I'm not ready. And I'd just rather not try than deal with the exhaustion of something I've convinced myself is doomed without even trying.
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Iām not repulsed by sex in fact I donāt hate the idea of it.
I grew up being told that sex was gross and shameful. No one ever thought me that sex is also trusting, respect and love in many cases.
I realize I do have some body image issues but I have gotten better at feeling comfortable in my body. I do have anxiety and depression due to school.
But that doesnāt change Iām Asexual no matter how I see it just actually doing the act with someone isnāt something Iām interested in.
I think sex jokes are funny and I like romance. Dirty scenes in books and movies donāt brother me. Itās just not within my interest to have anything with someone.
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For me, being asexual makes me feel almost broken in a way. Iāve legit tried before to get myself to enjoy sexual things but I just canāt, even masturbation for me is like āfeels good ig but it would feel better to play a game or draw rn.ā Ik this is tmi but I needed to get it out somewhere and this seems like the best place lel.
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Thank you for explaining šš¤š¤
I'm ace and I'm proud of my orientation, I don't see the hype in sex at all, and nor sexual jokes. My face just drops when I see others laughing at sexual jokes and I'm not understanding the hype. But I'm not depressed about that, it's difficult to fit into this world as an asexual, yes, but I don't mi
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Can confirm there was a long time in my teens that made me constantly uncomfortable regarding sex, despite everyone around me being this sex driven idiot. that even bled into my 20s, and while in a relationship thought there was something wrong with me when sex felt wrong. I thought I was asexual.
Turns out I'm autistic, and never found the one until my husband. Sexual attraction became a real thing for me :)
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My parents think itās a faze that Iāll grow out of. When I was like 10, they said something like āwhen you get married..ā and I said I didnāt want to get married and had no interest in reproducing. Itās that simple.
They still think Iāll āgrow out of itā even though Iām 15 now.
While a romantic relationship is acceptable, Iāll never like the idea of that.
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As a teenager, I used to be sexually averted. When I saw something erotic or outright sexual, I'd feel grossed out. Not because it was something within me reacting to it, but because I used to be very "by the book" and used to think that young people should not see or think of such things. After all, it's 18+ for a reason, isn't it? Only later I had realised that it was complete bullcrap, that all those things were normal for a teenager, and a part of the natural process of growing up.
Now I'm not averted at all. In fact, I have quite the dirty mind, with lots of fetishes and fantasies... Still a virgin though.
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If psychological distress about one's condition is the only thing separating sexual aversion disorder from asexuality, what would happen if we apply the same logic to gay people who are distressed about being gay (which could happen for any number of reasons including cultural stigma and difficulty finding a partner or having kids)? Surely we wouldn't reclassify homosexuality as a disorder under the condition that a person feel distressed about it? This makes me think there must be more to sexual aversion disorder than just a feeling of distress about one's disinterest in, or aversion to, sex.
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My story: I have a fem fatale for a sister, and she made my life miserable. Recently, I learned that my sexiphobia has gotten to the point when I sense someone sexy, I have a fight, flight, or freeze response and have no memory of the event.
This was frustrating when someone chewed me out for being a sexual predator, but I haven't got a clue turning me into a conspiracy theorist.
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I thought I was ace, until I moved out of my abusive parent's house. I am hypersexual and have sexual dysfunction, and it turns out my sense of romantic attraction isn't rly there. I have sensual attraction, and I can approximate romantic attraction with familial and sexual attractions but it's a real gateway for codependent relationships for me. I still feel familial love for all my past metas I've gotten to know tho :3
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Iām under the ace umbrella. I personally donāt mind the idea of sex, in fact the rewards (hormonal wise) make it seem quite enjoyable, but if my mind ever crosses ME doing it with someone I immediately get grossed out. I donāt mind the topic, and make jokes about when itās brought up, but itās just the thought of it ACTUALLY happening that makes me uncomfortable.
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7 months ago
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