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I need rest and a little space from any person who has caused me emotional turmoil. Because I can than replay the conversation, my role in the argument and how I can communicate my thoughts & feelings to the person better the next time I speak to them. It also gives me time to look at things from their perspective and see how I hurt them and also allow us to cool off. Because angry people CANNOT communicate effectively, they inflict pain and hurt, and do not hear anything.
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Totally agree, especially if your partner is way too agitated or aggravated and cannot calm down or hear your side, it's best to stop at that moment. Though some people don't stop even after being requested to continue later or the next day, even if their partner is trying to get sleep they will keep going until they are satisfied that they have dumped whatever they needed to dump.
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True, but the saying applies to people like my mother who "just feel too tired" and therefore never finish an argument (and also are never interested in finishing it either, they are always too tired to listen to another person).
If there are good reasons to not finish an argument, at least plan to finish it on a later moment and honour this too. Then none of you have to go to bed angry either and both of you can sleep alot better
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@ribz747
3 months ago
I lost both my parents very suddenly so while I hear what you're saying - not trying to fix things when you're tired, I think there is a middle ground in leaving things on neutral ground, wish them good night, tell them you love them and say you'll talk it thru the next day. The last words you say to someone you love/care about should be good ones.
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