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That is definitely true, people can get jaded by the relationship dynamics. Obsessed with getting what they want and minimizing what they could lose. People can also become obsessed with finding that âperfect person that meets all my criteriaâ instead of being realistic with your own value and what you could achieve.
All it does is make it harder for you to ever develop a deep connection. And even then people are so pessimistic they donât see it as even being possible to develop a deep loving connection that lasts years.
These same people will never fall in love, because falling in love is a disadvantage and makes you vulnerable. Their oxytocin is dead, all relationships is equivalent to hedonistic dopamine for them. They minimize their risks sure, but they simultaneously fail to maximize the happiness they could gain from opening themselves up within the relationship. So quick to cut people off, so quick to move from person to person. At some point you just have to go out and take the risk
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I'm reading that book now. And just like he says, that book sometimes feels like reading knowledge that I shouldn't be reading, as if it is some kind of forbidden knowledge. But I'm also old enough to have experienced seduction, so it also just shows me why certain things that I did instinctively, that caused people to like me and find me interesting.
So, it's a very insightful book. I highly recommend it. But it also can be somewhat confronting.
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I believe being vulnerable is definitely a hidden part of a human psyche, costly & equally rewarding. People do not choose the ability to be easily vulnerable or not, life experiences can either shut that thing off or remain open. In my forties Iâm learning to truly love and accept love. Itâs the hardest thing I have ever done but so rewarding. I feel itâs good health to my body too, the vulnerablilitu is the cost of it.
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@Nat06
2 months ago
Vulnerability is power. It also tells you who is who once you make yourself vulnerable. You will know the bullies right away.
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