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Not taking responsibility can happen when a parent/adult demands recognition and acknowledging the decision according to their choice rather than showing trust that their child can make a good decision. Confidence needs to be learned not given.
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I used to be like that in general for everything. Somewhere along the way I realized that i was externalizing everything and not taking responsibility and accountability for anything I did.
Im glad i put some effort and break the cycle. It is a toxic situation that you created for yourself and you dont wanna come out
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As a man this is very relatable.
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Had the same situation at workplace. I was blamed for not doing anything and ended up blaming others but in fact , being a new joinee, I could not take responsibility because every thing was first time for me and nobody to go and ask for guidance , even if I tried asking I was made to feel like I don't even know a simple thing.
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The Karpman drama triangle! Victim-villain-saviour. What the all have in common is not taking their own responsibility! This tool helped me so much to understand dynamics within me but also the dynamics of people around me.
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Also requires people to communicate honestly with you so you can evaluate and take responsibility for things you may have done.
If they won’t communicate that with you not only is there no real intimacy then you are going to be the victim as they also won’t ever take accountability for the things they do plus will allow the things that hurt them to fester which will then lead them to abusing you.
This then makes you an actual victim of mental and emotional abuse.
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I wonder if you have a video on how to help someone with this issue.
My sister was all her life a victimizer. Now she blames her parents for her depression, anxiety, life failures and believe there's no solutions from her side and she is powerless to change her life and get out of depression.
Also regardless of how my parents tried to help, it seems not enough and she always find a way to blame them again. It's sad and I can't tell her she can change her life because she thinks I don't feel or "support" her because I'm not saying she is powerless and how pity that is 😢
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I made a mistake at work and was let go. I lost control and was unkind to a co- worker. I take full responsibility for that decision. However, I have a hard time not blaming others for the build up to the situation. I let my supervisor know what was happening and they didn’t do anything. In fact, it seemed like they resented me for making them aware of the situation of how co- workers were treating clients. Like I was adding more work for them… It wasn’t my fault they hired people who didn’t fit … that seems like a training issue. But I lost control in an off moment and my life has changed for the worse. I’m trying to make “lemonade out of lemons” but it’s really hard. I sometimes still ruminate about the whole situation and try to reframe it. I needed to learn more about recognizing when I’m upset and take more breaths and breaks… I willing to learn and grow but it’s not happening as fast as I thought it would.
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I have been watching your YouTube channel for a while and it's pure gold 🥇 Thank you
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True.Thanks for sharing .❤❤
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On the contrary, a person who knows they are never powerless, is a person who is always in control; and a person who is always in control, is a person who knows they are always responsible. Indeed, stop playing the victim.
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The victim likes the attention they get
Victims control people through their helping them
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Great info. Thank you
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I can relate to what you are trying to say. I feel that behind that attitude of not taking responsibility and blaming others.. Oh! The road is bad because the government pay no attention, oh! The crime is there newspapers are filled with it, police is not doing work properly.. Oh! The covid is there, god is annoyed with us. Victimized mindset prevent people from taking charge, do research, find solution and lead a better life.
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you have the best speaking voice? I love your videos. Thank you for sharing.
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I play the victim I’ve hurt others but at what point do I say enough is enough for paying for those actions even when told your forgiven but yet I’m still hurt for it do I actually trust the forgiver or will they just lie to me to then turn around and stab me again when does this endless cycle stop. Look I will take responsibility for the pain I’ve caused but if I do they should too despite what number they are and how holy they may seem again yes I play the victim but what do you when it hurts when the pain you feel is to much to bare and how far should the responsibility be taken. When does it end?
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Very good. I step of recovery
We admitted we were powerless over our sin, wnd our lives had become unmanageable! The thing is in morals it doesnt produce unconditional love. God is the source of love. So what happens is you remove one demon and then it finds the house empty. Then that demon goes out and gets 7 more demons stronger. So we must fill the house or soul with holy spirit. A dog will return to its vomit and thats for those who think they can be good without Gods holy spirit!
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That's what's wrong. The world has to many people playing the victim game.
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I am not sure if i am victimizer. If i get bullied and mistreated at workplace. Being sexual haressed. Although i voiced it to defense myself, it ends up backfire. These situations had cause me health issues later on. Shouldn't i blame them for doing these? Isn't it unfair to blame everything on me when i didn't ask for it? Who should take responsibility? If i am the one to carries all these on my shoulder, what kind of responsibility should i take? Pls advice, if there is something i should do, i will work on it.
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@susangreen3871
1 year ago
I’m so happy I found you! So it shouldn’t come as a surprise to me, as I feel everything you say, resonates the truth! Thank you
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