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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Yeap I did what you suggested until I found out heās an unstoppable jerk š
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Just put a sign on the door,
"i tend to yap. Pls don't get me started so i can do my job š„¹š catch you at break time though
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That puts a whole new perspective on boundaries for me in general! Iāve been struggling because I have a friend who sets āboundariesā and is constantly telling me what to do and not, and I couldnāt figure out how to tell her not to do that without literally doing the same thingābut this helps so much!! Thank you! The help/clarity Iāve been praying for, thank you Jesusš
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Exactly! A lot of people think itās about controlling what other people do rather than controlling how they react. Stay Focused!
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YEESSS ERIN!!!! SO many people donāt understand you donāt lay down boundaries that way. You canāt control whether anybody follows them but yourself.
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You have been helping me so much! I am a sahm but I use your communication tips all the time. In all kinds of situations. I didnāt receive healthy examples growing up and being sahm kept me rather isolated from daily adult interactions for a while so this is like a crash course on being nice while being clear. Thanks!!
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TLDR: I really appreciate this postā¤ļø
It really is that easy. As someone who picks up TOO strongly on certain social cues and not strongly enough on others, I all but BEG people to set boundaries with me if Iām doing something they dislike. I canāt always tell until itās too late. I would be SUPER grateful if someone said this kind of thing to me BEFORE it boiled over in them. Because then theyāre just rude and passive aggressive and I donāt understand what I did wrong because Iāve been doing that thing for so long and they acted like it was great??? Most of the time I can handle understanding that kind of thing, even if I have my own internal struggle over it, and I very much keep to myself regardless to try to avoid annoying people. So when I do something itās because I GENUINELY have never been told itās wrong.
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This is actually a fantastic example, focusing on yourself and effect it has on you, not saying that he is doing something wrong
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This is why we need Erin. Can we replace Alexa and Siri with just Erin and whenever we're about to make a bad move, she pops on and steps in like the caring wiser sibling she is? We need that little bop bop on teh head sometimes, too.
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Why didn't I ever get to share a workspace w you!! Best co worker ever!ā¤
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I think I have subscribed... Because the advices are too good!
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Would you do a video about the etiquette of asking to be considered for WFH or hybrid positions in a cover letter please? Thank you
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I canāt say stuff like that cuz Iāve been traumatized my whole life by people being irately angry whenever I try to speak my mind or speak up for myself
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I loved this!!!
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yay tom thank you for not taking it personally
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love this.
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This girl is drop dead gorgeous holy shit
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Can you make a video for advice when your HR is best friends with your leadership, and how to handle that conflict of interest?
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How about just say "I'm a little busy right now but let's catch up at lunch?". Why does it have to be an essay explanation lol.
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@AdviceWithErin
1 month ago
PSA: you donāt need to be mean to successfully set firm boundaries.
In face, there are subtle, soft, and graceful ways to set boundariesāand oftentimes, that work even better than saying āhey Iām setting a boundary with you.ā
Boundaries arenāt about controlling what others do; itās about controlling what you do.
Be firm, yet kind. Hard on the problem, but soft on the person.
Want a weekly email with my favorite communication tips + tricks?
You got this! š
PS go to advicewitherin.com/newsletter to sign up for my weekly tip!
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